Lots of disqualifiers, but the single biggest one is being overweight... that one alone for me disqualifies 50%+ of the females in the US. When I've been to Europe, where obesity isn't as much of a thing, I'd say about 1 in 4 girls near my age were bangable. Over here, it's like 1 in 8. And it's sad because weight is 100% controllable. When I see a girl who is 20 something pounds overweight, it's not just physically unattractive... it's like they're advertising, "I don't respect myself enough to take care of myself. F*ck it." Such a turn off. Do not want.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
What's your top disqualifer for women
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