i know the general rule about single mothers is to avoid them but i have a new dilema i need some advice on. i was thinking about seeing this single mother, but she has a serious orbiter.....her babys daddys brother!!! long story short is she had a kid with this guy shed been dating for 2 years but 3 months after the baby was born the guy passed away. she didnt tell me why or how, and i didnt ask. we've been talking for a little while, nothing serious but i swear the brother of the guy who died is seriously trying to c0ck block me and get with her. maybe i'm reading too far into it and he feels like he "has to look out for her now" but it's just weird to me how "close" and "protective" he's trying to be. i mean the dude is the childs uncle for Christ sake! i can understand being there for her and the kid and all that but i swear this dude wants something more. my gut is telling me theres more to this story then what i know, and usually my gut is right. i know i wont be able to get rid of the guy, but i'm beginning to think this is way too much trouble. as if baby daddys werent hard enough to deal with, now i have some creepy brother/uncle getting in the way.haha
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
what's your take on this?
- Thread starter Robert28
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Kailex
Master Don Juan
Single mother.
Baby daddy's brother.
Red Flags.
Too much trouble.
What else do you want us to say?
Baby daddy's brother.
Red Flags.
Too much trouble.
What else do you want us to say?
that's it. i just wanted to make sure it wasn't just me thinking this situation was too effed up to mess with. sucks cause she's a very attractive girl. too bad this guy is going to screw up her dating life from now til eternity.