i know the general rule about single mothers is to avoid them but i have a new dilema i need some advice on. i was thinking about seeing this single mother, but she has a serious orbiter.....her babys daddys brother!!! long story short is she had a kid with this guy shed been dating for 2 years but 3 months after the baby was born the guy passed away. she didnt tell me why or how, and i didnt ask. we've been talking for a little while, nothing serious but i swear the brother of the guy who died is seriously trying to c0ck block me and get with her. maybe i'm reading too far into it and he feels like he "has to look out for her now" but it's just weird to me how "close" and "protective" he's trying to be. i mean the dude is the childs uncle for Christ sake! i can understand being there for her and the kid and all that but i swear this dude wants something more. my gut is telling me theres more to this story then what i know, and usually my gut is right. i know i wont be able to get rid of the guy, but i'm beginning to think this is way too much trouble. as if baby daddys werent hard enough to deal with, now i have some creepy brother/uncle getting in the way.haha