spider_007
Master Don Juan
now you can see what chumps 90% of guys are.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Whats your social circle?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
GodsGiftToFatBirds
Senior Don Juan
Haha, how do you know that, have you been to Chester?
Not Quite There
Senior Don Juan
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lol, i knew it.
haven't been, but know a few people in chester and knew there was one there, but there is also one in my town (solihull, and also in sutton coldfield in north birmingham).
Its funny, because whenever i read your posts about the club you worked in, the club i would always think of was rosies in my town!
Its not even called rosies now, it got changed to rb's, and then it had loads of trouble with gangs from birmingham coming (the gang that shot those 4 girls a fe wyears back came from it that night) so they changed the music policy to cheese and reopened it as a reflex bar and called the club 'loaf', but basically everyone still knows it as dirty rosies.
is thursday night the student night in chester as well?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I could imagine him getting a few a week in germany, they are in bars as soon as work finishes there.
I left my phone in the bathroom in my house, I look 4 missed calls and a txt, saying get down the old surgery which is a bar. Get there and i jus missed him DOH!
I left my phone in the bathroom in my house, I look 4 missed calls and a txt, saying get down the old surgery which is a bar. Get there and i jus missed him DOH!
undesputable
Master Don Juan
200 and hes 24...That is very possible.... say he lost his virginity when he was 15 or 16, thats 8 years or 9 years to 24 so if he ****s one chick a week which is still very possible he would have banged more than 400 *****es...but if he ****s one girl every two weeks which is even more reasonable....
200 by the time im 25 or 26 is my goal....i gotta get to work
200 by the time im 25 or 26 is my goal....i gotta get to work
GodsGiftToFatBirds
Senior Don Juan
Yeh the one here is just the same, it used to be called Rosies, then it became RB's about 5 years ago. Then last year, the bottom floor (there's 3 floors) became an 80's bar called Reflex, which I loved the first week or so i worked in it. Now it annoys the hell out of me, the constant cheese with the same playlist night after night just drives me insane!!
There's also a Loaf in Chester right behind Rosies although its a separate place, they're both owned by the same company.
Monday nights the official student night but its sh!te, Thursday is the best night to go so long as you're not bothered by the fact that half the girls are barely legal.
I've stopped writing the club approaches journal btw cos it was so hard to write. Most the time when i'm working, i just get talking to someone rather than actually making an approach, which made it hard to explain in any detail what i was doing.
I always thought it changed it’s name cos all the letters for rosies got stolen except the R. What are you saying about reflex tho!!! That’s where I pickup (mostly cos brannigans has only just opened and it’s full of too many divorcees), went out last night and the girl/guy ratio was crap, way less than 50/50. Chester’s alright, but not on a tuesday. Wont be long before the students are back tho so should be worth going out in the week again!!
Trying to work out who you are now with you working there. I did try replying to your e-mail btw but the address wouldn’t work for me. Get in touch!!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
GodsGiftToFatBirds
Senior Don Juan
Haha, I'm the good looking one surrounded by loads of fit women.
Seriously, I don't mind you knowing who I am so long as you're gonna keep it quiet from anyone not on this site: I don't particualrly want everyone in Chester knowing that I use a seduction website to help me get women, and go under the name of GodsGiftToFatBirds!!
Try sending us the email again mate, my email address is [email protected]. If you send it directly to that rather than through the site, I should get it no probs.