spider_007
Master Don Juan
now you can see what chumps 90% of guys are.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Whats your social circle?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
GodsGiftToFatBirds
Senior Don Juan
Haha, how do you know that, have you been to Chester?
Not Quite There
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lol, i knew it.
haven't been, but know a few people in chester and knew there was one there, but there is also one in my town (solihull, and also in sutton coldfield in north birmingham).
Its funny, because whenever i read your posts about the club you worked in, the club i would always think of was rosies in my town!
Its not even called rosies now, it got changed to rb's, and then it had loads of trouble with gangs from birmingham coming (the gang that shot those 4 girls a fe wyears back came from it that night) so they changed the music policy to cheese and reopened it as a reflex bar and called the club 'loaf', but basically everyone still knows it as dirty rosies.
is thursday night the student night in chester as well?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I could imagine him getting a few a week in germany, they are in bars as soon as work finishes there.
I left my phone in the bathroom in my house, I look 4 missed calls and a txt, saying get down the old surgery which is a bar. Get there and i jus missed him DOH!
I left my phone in the bathroom in my house, I look 4 missed calls and a txt, saying get down the old surgery which is a bar. Get there and i jus missed him DOH!
undesputable
Master Don Juan
200 and hes 24...That is very possible.... say he lost his virginity when he was 15 or 16, thats 8 years or 9 years to 24 so if he ****s one chick a week which is still very possible he would have banged more than 400 *****es...but if he ****s one girl every two weeks which is even more reasonable....
200 by the time im 25 or 26 is my goal....i gotta get to work
200 by the time im 25 or 26 is my goal....i gotta get to work
GodsGiftToFatBirds
Senior Don Juan
Yeh the one here is just the same, it used to be called Rosies, then it became RB's about 5 years ago. Then last year, the bottom floor (there's 3 floors) became an 80's bar called Reflex, which I loved the first week or so i worked in it. Now it annoys the hell out of me, the constant cheese with the same playlist night after night just drives me insane!!
There's also a Loaf in Chester right behind Rosies although its a separate place, they're both owned by the same company.
Monday nights the official student night but its sh!te, Thursday is the best night to go so long as you're not bothered by the fact that half the girls are barely legal.
I've stopped writing the club approaches journal btw cos it was so hard to write. Most the time when i'm working, i just get talking to someone rather than actually making an approach, which made it hard to explain in any detail what i was doing.
I always thought it changed it’s name cos all the letters for rosies got stolen except the R. What are you saying about reflex tho!!! That’s where I pickup (mostly cos brannigans has only just opened and it’s full of too many divorcees), went out last night and the girl/guy ratio was crap, way less than 50/50. Chester’s alright, but not on a tuesday. Wont be long before the students are back tho so should be worth going out in the week again!!
Trying to work out who you are now with you working there. I did try replying to your e-mail btw but the address wouldn’t work for me. Get in touch!!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
GodsGiftToFatBirds
Senior Don Juan
Haha, I'm the good looking one surrounded by loads of fit women.
Seriously, I don't mind you knowing who I am so long as you're gonna keep it quiet from anyone not on this site: I don't particualrly want everyone in Chester knowing that I use a seduction website to help me get women, and go under the name of GodsGiftToFatBirds!!
Try sending us the email again mate, my email address is [email protected]. If you send it directly to that rather than through the site, I should get it no probs.