Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Whats your social circle?

S0LID

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Whats your social circle like?
Whats your aim for it in the next 6 months?



At the moment my phone wont stop shaking. Im hanging with people who are introverted, friends who dont work and jus smoke all day :D, outgoing uni types who are always doing something crazy, business owner whos sucsessful, a player (slept with over 200 chicks, age 24), a girl (hb5), 2 college buddies. (i have a gd few more mates who I occasionaly chill with but these are the ones i bother with)

my aim is to get in with this group of guys who are all sucsessful with women who lift weights to. I've already met some of them a few times and we got on but i was with another guy who knew them. Their older than me but i dont think thats a prob. I got on pritty well with all of them. I actually added one to my msn today so this goal is nearly sorted.

My secondary goal is to get a few hot female friends, hb7 plus (uni maybe?).
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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GodsGiftToFatBirds

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Thats a good question.

For me, I could do to find some new mates to go out on the pull with. I've just finished university and when I was there, I had 2 very close friends who i'd hang out with all the time as well as a largish group of mates. But unfortunately now back home permanently, the group of friends I've got at home, although they're good mates, they're largely AFC and not into going out unless there's a big group of us.
Meaning I get nights like tonight where I'm not working and well up for going on the pull but can't find people to go with.

What I think is difficult with getting a better social life is getting mates from work or football or whatever into mates you arrange to hang out with or go out with outside those places, if you know what i mean.

Damn i was well up for going after some pu$$y tonight as well. I'm half tempted to drive down to the club at like half 12 by myself and just get on the dancefloor on the pull! It'll be rammed, there'll be some mates from work out and i could just say i've lost my mates somewhere if anyone asks.
 

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Haha, all you have to do is get their digits. Once you have their number talk to them in work, ask if their out on the weekend. Then txt them the night your out asking if you can tag because ur mates are being gay and wont go out.

Where in the UK you from? I've given up on clubs theres a massive male ratio in them nowday.
 

GodsGiftToFatBirds

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Haha i know yeh thats what I should have done.
I'll prob see em out anyway, i'm heading out in 5 mins cos i can't be arsed staying home.
I'm surprised what you say about the m/f ratio - I'm from Chester, its pretty much 50/50 if you go out here.
 

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three even worse g33ks (or dorks or whatever it is) then me. and that's it. :( and i haven't met anyone in months.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I got my niggaz, my playaz, my pimpz, my hoez, my dawgz, and my peepz. Really the only requirement to be in my circle is to be phat.
 

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Hmm, my social circle consists of about 60-70 people who I'll see at some time or another. Who the hell knows where it'll be in 6 months?

But friends are more important than that, these guys aren't going anywhere.
 

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HaHaHaHa you belive a guy that tells you he has slept with over 200 chiks. When did he lose his virginity 12?.........thats stupid

No offence to your Player friend but i dont like people who lie about there sex lives.
 

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Black_Italian you are straight up calling me a liar, I know the guy and you dont, that means you have no base for your accusations. The guy is one of my closest mates but nah you are right you know him better than me. People like you on the forum come and go pritty quick. I dont even know why I reply to some of the idiots on this forum.

He is very charasmatic guy which helps. He has soo many one night stands its shocking. I love the way he works with girls when he starts meeting them, hes this realy nice funny guy, then he shags them a few times and changes into this pr1ck :D doesnt return their texts then they fall in love :eek: last week this girl was phoning him crying saying shed drive 20 miles just to see him for half and hour he then bombed her out. That night he pulled the bar maid who was his sisters friend. This week hes also slept with this girl at the top of my street but that doesnt count cause he did her before a few times. He has recently discovered the internet :D once he gets his driving liecence back he'll be meeting loads off the net. I think his secret is living for today not tomorrow, steroids, nice cloths and a heart of ice :D.
 

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IF he lost his virginity at 16 and he is now 24..... 24-16=8 and if he got laid once every two weeks 8x24=192 VERY POSSIBLE (IF HE IS A NATRUAL.)


as for; "Whats your social circle like?
Whats your aim for it in the next 6 months?"

haw about; TO ACCUALLY GET A SOCIAL CIRCLE. haven't really met anybody new in years (other then a handfull of passing aquaintances) :( :down:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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my local social circle consists of 3 guys.
1 is a total afc with a fat gf.
1 is a policeman who is always working
1 is broke and never goes out

I work in an office full of 30 year old women

I can't wait to start my new college course.
 

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I agree with you spider I have few aquaintances...most of the guys that i hang out with are usually out to snag something but once you put the alcohol in um they turn into life size penis's that ruin it for anyone around them. i.e. ignorant statements,comments,among other things. And virginia is pretty wack as far as the southeast...alot of "princess" type chicks here that want a husband not a one night fling...
 

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Lol its my player friend 25th today! Might be hitting the city, gonna analyse the **** outta him :) i wouldnt be suprised if he was shagging for the age of 14, I'll ask him later. he was based in Germany when he was in the army, i can only imagine the damage he done there :D.

If i do hit the city i'll be meeting that gang of guys up there too who I mentioned in my AIM.
 

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Can i ask why you looking for a HB7+ as a friend? Im not against it, i just want to know what youre plans are from having a friendship with a hot chick.

I got the chance to be friends with an HB9 as shes married but i dont really see the point in it for me.
 

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mine is crap

After being away at university, and travelling for the past few years, plus other people moving away, I have lost a lot of old mates.

Even people still around, I can't be bothered to hang around with them for various reasons.

and my remaining few circles, are either AFC's, have girlfriends and don't go out, or just go out to crap places.

The biggest joke is, i have loads of friends in other cities all over the UK who are far more along my wavelength, but i don't want to have to go to other cities, gonna have to build up my social circle here. Not to bothered right now, just concentrating on the gym, my dissatation and getting a proper job. I'm sure it'll come soon enough.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Not Quite There

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Originally posted by GodsGiftToFatBirds

I'm surprised what you say about the m/f ratio - I'm from Chester, its pretty much 50/50 if you go out here.
chester.... is the club you go to/work in called rosies or rbs by any chance?
 

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-You befriend hot girls and it becomes natural talking to them,

-you see how human they are (they are like superhuman in clubs but when you see them first thing in the morning, see their insecurities, see guys they like who aint all that),

-it's a good social proof. If girls see you hanging with girls who are better looking than them and you start talking to another grl saying "oh, I was meeting her before but i decided to stay friends your knocking your status up as she thinks your better than her and girls want what other girls want.

-You get to meet the hot girls friends. If nothing you befriend all her friends too, and so on.

The whole point of social proof IMO is to be a virus, you meet one person who introduces you to another who introduces you to another etc etc etc.

Anyone wants to chat add me [email protected]
 

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Ok SOLID i admit i could have been wrong. I dont know your friend and if he lost his virginity at 14-16 i guess it is possible, my bad man.

Anyway did you know they say the avarge man has 6 sexual partners in his lifetime. Your friend is way ahead.
 

Not Quite There

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Originally posted by Black_Italian
Ok SOLID i admit i could have been wrong. I dont know your friend and if he lost his virginity at 14-16 i guess it is possible, my bad man.

Anyway did you know they say the avarge man has 6 sexual partners in his lifetime. Your friend is way ahead.
i would put that down to a difference in generations.


I.e younger generations are shagging far more than older generations did.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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