You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Alot of girls are into astrology. I've done my research and enjoy talking about birthsigns. I've found it's a way to quickly build rapport and better understand a person. However, if I can tell the person hasn't researched their own, then I drop the subject.prema said:I got this from every girl that was into me/ or curious .
whats best way to answer ,
sometimes I just tell im pisces ,sometimes smile,eyecontact without giving answer
if any one got this its IOI.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
SO TRUEAboleo said:
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Talk about the SawxDJVladdy said:Hm, not in MA at all...
Chris Rock said:Heres a horoscope for everyone:
Aquarius: Your gonna die.
Capricorn: Your gonna die.
Gemini: Your gonna die. TWICE.
Leo: Your gonna die.
Scorpio: Your gonna die f***in
I'm a virgo as well.. lol Us Virgo's believe that we're the best sign of the zodiac. lolDonGorgon said:I am a virgo and I love capricorn women we just click romantically and it feel cosmic....LOL
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.