"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
whats your sign
- Thread starter prema
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Gangster Of Love
Master Don Juan
"Oh my god, you are such a dork!"
then throw some questions at them
"So what can you tell by my/your sign?"
"What are some positive qualities about yourself according to your sign?"
Etc.
ER!C L!VE
Master Don Juan
Alot of girls are into astrology. I've done my research and enjoy talking about birthsigns. I've found it's a way to quickly build rapport and better understand a person. However, if I can tell the person hasn't researched their own, then I drop the subject.prema said:
I ask guys and girls their birthsign. IMO, it helps me have a better understanding of the person's personality. I don't live and die by the birthsign - I know everyone is different.
As for it being an IOI? Meh.. You'd need more evidence than one personal question. If she says, "OooOooo I Looooovvee Pisces" then that would be an IOI
what i mean here is women asked me whats my sign after some talking and can see in her face ,to see what my sign and if im someone fits her criteria of sign
I admit ,i dont know much but can see pretty much all women dig this ,
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
"Dangerous curves ahead"
"B1tch on board"
Oh wait, those are the ones that women have told me. I don't know any c/f comeback other than "Men at work." Typically I just tell the woman my sign and ask them what it means to them.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
SO TRUEAboleo said:
I have ignored on this girl first two times ,but she asked three times and third time was screaming me to YIELD YIELD or get crushed.
WHAT IS YOUR SIGN
p.s is there a sign that all women like ?
that would make it this game simple
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.