"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What's your seduction strategy ?

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  • Always plan ahead. It wasn't raining when Noah built the ark.
  • Before beginning, plan carefully.
  • All you need is the plan, the road map, and the courage to press on to your destination.
  • Planning is bringing the future into the present so that you can do something about it now.
  • Developing the plan is actually laying out the sequence of events that have to occur for you to achieve your goal.
  • Always have a plan, and believe in it. Nothing happens by accident.
  • A good plan is like a road map: it shows the final destination and usually the best way to get there.

These are just a few quotes that reveal the true secret to achieve something is to plan, and follow your plan. Now I would like to know what are your plans about womens. I know that most of you have made unconcious plans, and you might not be aware of them.

Let's the discussion begin ..
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I don't think you should plan anything.

Well, let me rephrase. There's really very little to plan, because conversations are so unpredictable. It's like chess, in a way. You can study strategy and tactics and everything you possibly want, but in the end, each game is individual and cannot be planned entirely.

And people are much more complicated than chess!

A good roadmap is helpful, sure, and I think that many companies out there help people find roadmaps.

But if you don't actually start doing approaches, you will get nowhere. Absolutely nowhere.

I actually took a bootcamp, and am in regular contact with an instructor to advise me.

However, there's no progress, and nothing to talk about, unless I do approaches.

So if we're talking about plans, don't talk about planning carefully. That's an excuse for people to spend six months on forums, trying to find the magic bullet that will make their approach anxiety go away.

For every hour on a board, spend at least two outside. Even if you aren't approaching.

That's what I did. I went to a park every damn day, and for a couple weeks never approached anyone. Part of the reason I finally did it was I was just so damn tired of walking all day to no purpose.

The DJ bootcamp is awesome. Seriously, for a free document, it's a very high quality one, just as good as a lot of pay products, because it right away gets you to go out in public. That's the goal here.

All these eBooks and videos and kits and programs are all bull****.

All that matters is YOU getting in the field.

So DONT plan - start doing!
 

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I don't have problems approaching ... I also don't have problems with girls. The only this I want to do is to be more powerful around them , and make them act how I want on a defined plan, and take them where I want according to a plan.
 

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You sound like some mad-scientist trying to build the ultimate atom bomb to destroy everything in sight.
 

marinetti

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good to know. i was just making sure.

my strategy is

Approach
Logistics (who's she with, how did she get there, does she have work tomorrow? does she have a boyfriend? how's the relationship?)
Make conversation sexual / start flirting
Close (generally at least a kiss)

Times depend, though conversations can usually be sexual within 15 min or so.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Good stuff marinetti
 
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