"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Whats your response when ignored?

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haha I just started aproaching, and I saw a cute girl at my school, so I went and started talking to her, surprisingly I was not nervous, not even a bit, so I say hi to her, and she just looked at my and gave me a very creepy look, at this moment I start thinking she might grab a revolver or something :trouble: but I said so whats your name? and she gave me the same look
So I just said Ok cya and walked back to my buddies.
So what do you do in these situations?
I tought this aproaching thing was so difficult and now I think is a lot of fun haha
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DonJoseCantosie

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Just move on to the next one i'd say. Some women are weird like that. Most times, wats good is the vacuum. if she ignores the first time, stick out ur hand, introduce urself, ask her name and keep it there(Credit Dan from Juggler Method). The pressure will get to her and she'll answer.

Happened in the subway one time, a woman ignored me but then i kept my hand there and then she told me she was married. Got an answer out of her. try it.
 
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Lockheed said:
haha I just started aproaching, and I saw a cute girl at my school, so I went and started talking to her, surprisingly I was not nervous, not even a bit, so I say hi to her, and she just looked at my and gave me a very creepy look, at this moment I start thinking she might grab a revolver or something :trouble: but I said so whats your name? and she gave me the same look
So I just said Ok cya and walked back to my buddies.
So what do you do in these situations?
I tought this aproaching thing was so difficult and now I think is a lot of fun haha
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I'd start doing sign language and be like, "Are you deaf, mute, or just plain rude?" In a retard voice, to either make her laugh or seem unnecessarily b!tchy!
 
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DonJoseCantosie

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hahah that'd be funny^
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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