"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Whats your response when ignored?

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haha I just started aproaching, and I saw a cute girl at my school, so I went and started talking to her, surprisingly I was not nervous, not even a bit, so I say hi to her, and she just looked at my and gave me a very creepy look, at this moment I start thinking she might grab a revolver or something :trouble: but I said so whats your name? and she gave me the same look
So I just said Ok cya and walked back to my buddies.
So what do you do in these situations?
I tought this aproaching thing was so difficult and now I think is a lot of fun haha
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Just move on to the next one i'd say. Some women are weird like that. Most times, wats good is the vacuum. if she ignores the first time, stick out ur hand, introduce urself, ask her name and keep it there(Credit Dan from Juggler Method). The pressure will get to her and she'll answer.

Happened in the subway one time, a woman ignored me but then i kept my hand there and then she told me she was married. Got an answer out of her. try it.
 
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Lockheed said:
haha I just started aproaching, and I saw a cute girl at my school, so I went and started talking to her, surprisingly I was not nervous, not even a bit, so I say hi to her, and she just looked at my and gave me a very creepy look, at this moment I start thinking she might grab a revolver or something :trouble: but I said so whats your name? and she gave me the same look
So I just said Ok cya and walked back to my buddies.
So what do you do in these situations?
I tought this aproaching thing was so difficult and now I think is a lot of fun haha
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I'd start doing sign language and be like, "Are you deaf, mute, or just plain rude?" In a retard voice, to either make her laugh or seem unnecessarily b!tchy!
 
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DonJoseCantosie

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hahah that'd be funny^
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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