"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Whats your response when ignored?

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haha I just started aproaching, and I saw a cute girl at my school, so I went and started talking to her, surprisingly I was not nervous, not even a bit, so I say hi to her, and she just looked at my and gave me a very creepy look, at this moment I start thinking she might grab a revolver or something :trouble: but I said so whats your name? and she gave me the same look
So I just said Ok cya and walked back to my buddies.
So what do you do in these situations?
I tought this aproaching thing was so difficult and now I think is a lot of fun haha
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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DonJoseCantosie

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Just move on to the next one i'd say. Some women are weird like that. Most times, wats good is the vacuum. if she ignores the first time, stick out ur hand, introduce urself, ask her name and keep it there(Credit Dan from Juggler Method). The pressure will get to her and she'll answer.

Happened in the subway one time, a woman ignored me but then i kept my hand there and then she told me she was married. Got an answer out of her. try it.
 
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Lockheed said:
haha I just started aproaching, and I saw a cute girl at my school, so I went and started talking to her, surprisingly I was not nervous, not even a bit, so I say hi to her, and she just looked at my and gave me a very creepy look, at this moment I start thinking she might grab a revolver or something :trouble: but I said so whats your name? and she gave me the same look
So I just said Ok cya and walked back to my buddies.
So what do you do in these situations?
I tought this aproaching thing was so difficult and now I think is a lot of fun haha
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I'd start doing sign language and be like, "Are you deaf, mute, or just plain rude?" In a retard voice, to either make her laugh or seem unnecessarily b!tchy!
 
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DonJoseCantosie

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hahah that'd be funny^
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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