Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Whats your personal style? Do you peacock?

Egoist

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Now we all know that appearances are tricky. Some people can pick up HB10s wearing a burlap sack, and others only feel like a DJ when they have their lucky pants on and a rolex.

So what are you opinions on clothing, peacocking items, etc. Do you keep it simple? Do you have your own personal style? Do you try to differentiate yourself from the others by having your own unique items/accessories/clothes?

Finally, have you noticed women reacting to some of those things better than others?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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its fair to say that i follow trends in clothing, coz they're trends for a reason.. bcoz they look good (at the time anyway) and girls usually dig the latest trends
 

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sorry egoist i just read ur post again, i thought u were simply asking what our styles were

i have no idea what peacocking is =\ :confused:
 

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Advice from a girl:

Women can INSTANLY tell if you're a wannabee! If your purpose of wearing hip hop gear or a suit is to impress even though they are not your usual clothing, then do not wear them, you will come off as a desperate wannabee. Women will (secretly) make fun of you.

Wear what you feel is comfortable for you but not to the extent where you are looking like a bum. Women want confident men. If you act and move with confidence you will (secretly) be praised by women.
 

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well thanks for answering the question that i've never asked

Originally posted by blueangel83
Advice from a girl:

Women can INSTANLY tell if you're a wannabee! If your purpose of wearing hip hop gear or a suit is to impress even though they are not your usual clothing, then do not wear them, you will come off as a desperate wannabee. Women will (secretly) make fun of you.

Wear what you feel is comfortable for you but not to the extent where you are looking like a bum. Women want confident men. If you act and move with confidence you will (secretly) be praised by women.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I usually just sport, jeans and a t-hirt. But I'm not into the whole baggy clothes style, skin tight style or vintage thing, so my jeans and shirts are 'normal or well-fitted'. If that makes sense.

But as said before, it matters a lot on your attitude. Peacocking in what I wear, isn't normally my thing, but I peacock a lot in my attitude. Though when I'm around my friends who peacock all the time, I tend to dress a little more like they do.
 
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I wear what I like, and comb my hair the way I like. Granted it's fairly standard fair, nothing terribly fashionable or trendy. But it's clean, classic, and certainly not dated. To hell with the women that focus on those details.
 
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