“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Whats your personal style? Do you peacock?

Egoist

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Now we all know that appearances are tricky. Some people can pick up HB10s wearing a burlap sack, and others only feel like a DJ when they have their lucky pants on and a rolex.

So what are you opinions on clothing, peacocking items, etc. Do you keep it simple? Do you have your own personal style? Do you try to differentiate yourself from the others by having your own unique items/accessories/clothes?

Finally, have you noticed women reacting to some of those things better than others?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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its fair to say that i follow trends in clothing, coz they're trends for a reason.. bcoz they look good (at the time anyway) and girls usually dig the latest trends
 

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sorry egoist i just read ur post again, i thought u were simply asking what our styles were

i have no idea what peacocking is =\ :confused:
 

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Advice from a girl:

Women can INSTANLY tell if you're a wannabee! If your purpose of wearing hip hop gear or a suit is to impress even though they are not your usual clothing, then do not wear them, you will come off as a desperate wannabee. Women will (secretly) make fun of you.

Wear what you feel is comfortable for you but not to the extent where you are looking like a bum. Women want confident men. If you act and move with confidence you will (secretly) be praised by women.
 

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well thanks for answering the question that i've never asked

Originally posted by blueangel83
Advice from a girl:

Women can INSTANLY tell if you're a wannabee! If your purpose of wearing hip hop gear or a suit is to impress even though they are not your usual clothing, then do not wear them, you will come off as a desperate wannabee. Women will (secretly) make fun of you.

Wear what you feel is comfortable for you but not to the extent where you are looking like a bum. Women want confident men. If you act and move with confidence you will (secretly) be praised by women.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I usually just sport, jeans and a t-hirt. But I'm not into the whole baggy clothes style, skin tight style or vintage thing, so my jeans and shirts are 'normal or well-fitted'. If that makes sense.

But as said before, it matters a lot on your attitude. Peacocking in what I wear, isn't normally my thing, but I peacock a lot in my attitude. Though when I'm around my friends who peacock all the time, I tend to dress a little more like they do.
 
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I wear what I like, and comb my hair the way I like. Granted it's fairly standard fair, nothing terribly fashionable or trendy. But it's clean, classic, and certainly not dated. To hell with the women that focus on those details.
 
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