"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Whats your personal style? Do you peacock?

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Now we all know that appearances are tricky. Some people can pick up HB10s wearing a burlap sack, and others only feel like a DJ when they have their lucky pants on and a rolex.

So what are you opinions on clothing, peacocking items, etc. Do you keep it simple? Do you have your own personal style? Do you try to differentiate yourself from the others by having your own unique items/accessories/clothes?

Finally, have you noticed women reacting to some of those things better than others?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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its fair to say that i follow trends in clothing, coz they're trends for a reason.. bcoz they look good (at the time anyway) and girls usually dig the latest trends
 

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sorry egoist i just read ur post again, i thought u were simply asking what our styles were

i have no idea what peacocking is =\ :confused:
 

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Advice from a girl:

Women can INSTANLY tell if you're a wannabee! If your purpose of wearing hip hop gear or a suit is to impress even though they are not your usual clothing, then do not wear them, you will come off as a desperate wannabee. Women will (secretly) make fun of you.

Wear what you feel is comfortable for you but not to the extent where you are looking like a bum. Women want confident men. If you act and move with confidence you will (secretly) be praised by women.
 

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well thanks for answering the question that i've never asked

Originally posted by blueangel83
Advice from a girl:

Women can INSTANLY tell if you're a wannabee! If your purpose of wearing hip hop gear or a suit is to impress even though they are not your usual clothing, then do not wear them, you will come off as a desperate wannabee. Women will (secretly) make fun of you.

Wear what you feel is comfortable for you but not to the extent where you are looking like a bum. Women want confident men. If you act and move with confidence you will (secretly) be praised by women.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I usually just sport, jeans and a t-hirt. But I'm not into the whole baggy clothes style, skin tight style or vintage thing, so my jeans and shirts are 'normal or well-fitted'. If that makes sense.

But as said before, it matters a lot on your attitude. Peacocking in what I wear, isn't normally my thing, but I peacock a lot in my attitude. Though when I'm around my friends who peacock all the time, I tend to dress a little more like they do.
 
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I wear what I like, and comb my hair the way I like. Granted it's fairly standard fair, nothing terribly fashionable or trendy. But it's clean, classic, and certainly not dated. To hell with the women that focus on those details.
 
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