I met this girl this past weekend at a bar. we danced all night, had a good time, and exchanged numbers. i asked her to go out this friday. she said yeah sure that'd be great. she then texts me yesterday saying how she talked to Jennifer, whos a mutual friend of ours, and they came up with this plan for us to all go on a double date. when she asked me what i thought of that, i said works for me, but in reality i hate double dates and didnt know what else to say. i don't like double dates for a first date because its hard to get to know someone unlike a regular date because all you have to talk to is that person you're with, not two other people and that person youre on the date with. do you think this girl might not be comfortable with me yet to go out with just me? i surely didnt get that vibe at all from her the other night when we met. any opinions about this? can i backout of the date now?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
what's your opinion of double dates for a first date?
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