I met this girl this past weekend at a bar. we danced all night, had a good time, and exchanged numbers. i asked her to go out this friday. she said yeah sure that'd be great. she then texts me yesterday saying how she talked to Jennifer, whos a mutual friend of ours, and they came up with this plan for us to all go on a double date. when she asked me what i thought of that, i said works for me, but in reality i hate double dates and didnt know what else to say. i don't like double dates for a first date because its hard to get to know someone unlike a regular date because all you have to talk to is that person you're with, not two other people and that person youre on the date with. do you think this girl might not be comfortable with me yet to go out with just me? i surely didnt get that vibe at all from her the other night when we met. any opinions about this? can i backout of the date now?
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
what's your opinion of double dates for a first date?
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