Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What's your online dating approach?

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Andrei I appreciate the fact you took time to go though my old OLD posts - there's lots of gold there.

It's a numbers game (typical sales mantra) - but genuinely do not care about outcomes. Be bold, be honest, open and funny - humans (male and female) are drawn to that. Be self-deprecating, be self ware, be natural.

Wrap it all up with humour and charm and you will be successful with women.
My approach in general is be genuine, I don't really care if someone doesn't like me the way I am.
But since I have low experience in online(if you don't count facebook 10 years ago which BTW was soo easy), I thought, what better place for good techniques than SS?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Update: I'm trying to keep conversations short and interesting. The girls with high interest seem to want to talk more, but through a pretext I was able to invite them both over to my place.
One will come to "teach me some medical stuff", while the other asked if I'll invite her over to my new place and if she needs to bring a gift. She said she'll come wrapped as a gift. Music to my ears.
Had one chick unmatch me after 2 messages and I unmatched another that seemed less interested.

All in all, online might work as long as I manage to ignore uninterested girls. Thanks for the tips sent so far.
 
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