"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"what's your number?"

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You know the whole deal

you ask for a chicks number, and they return your question with their own. Everyone monkey with half a brain knows that this is just an evasion tactic, and that most chicks have no intentions of calling a guy when they do this, but is there anyway you guys work with this?

I'm interested in some of your ideas. What do you do when this happens?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Sure. Take her cell, punch in your number and call your cell from her cell so you have her number.

"Great, you have my number and i have yours."
 

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Hold out your hand with a smile, like you are going for a handshake, then shake her hand LOOK HER RIGHT THEY EYE and say "it was nice meeting you..." and then turn and walk away...

When you do this, she will instantly wonder if she made a mistake. Women are attracted to men who show confidence. When you show her you don't play that game, you put her in her place.

99.9% of the time, women use this line as an aversion to rejecting a guy. Most women don't want to hurt the feelings of men...so they try to let them down easy by saying "what's your number?" instead.

If you place a high value on yourself, others will follow. If you put up with this crap...you will also leads others to follow. Its what you think of yourself before anyone else will follow (to the bedroom or anywhere else).

Remember a TRUE PUA values himself over women.

Don't put up with that...Smile, Shake and Walk!
 

Ease

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Say 'what the hell, i dont give out my number to strangers'

Great ****y funny ;)
 

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Ganondorf said:
You know the whole deal

you ask for a chicks number, and they return your question with their own. Everyone monkey with half a brain knows that this is just an evasion tactic, and that most chicks have no intentions of calling a guy when they do this, but is there anyway you guys work with this?

I'm interested in some of your ideas. What do you do when this happens?
This shouldn't happen in the first place.

You're right,it is an evasion tactic. If you going for the number ends with her using evasion tactics,that means you screwed up somewhere prior to asking for the number.

The point isn't to get her nmber,but her interest. If you gain her interest,the number will follow.

I'd look at your conversation leading up to the number close instead of trying to outwit an evasion tactitc.

That's where the problem lies.

The correct question should be,"Why is she trying to avoid giving me her number?". Find the answer to this,then you won't even have to deal with evasion tactitcs.

Good luck man.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I'll give them my number anyway, cuz you never know. Chances are they wont call, but I've had a call from girls a month later out of the blue that lead to sex.

Have no expectations, but never entirely rule out a possibility, just so you can maintain high value. Whats it gonna hurt to give your number out? Igetit is right, though, if you encounter this in your interaction, it is your cue to try to raise her IL significantly before you part ways.
 

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I've also seen women being advised to ask for men's numbers ..."because men get your number and never call you..."
 

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Ease said:
Say 'what the hell, i dont give out my number to strangers'

Great ****y funny ;)
lol. lmfao. I could imagine me saying something like that. LOL. I almost did.
WARNING THE FOLLOWING QUOTE FROM MY PAST MAY HAVE GRAFFIX AFC MOMENTS, VIEWER DISCRETION IS ADVISED:

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"[girl] - Wow! You are in this class!"
[me]-"Ya, its freaking awesome that we have the same class"
"[girl] - so whats your number"
"[me] - .......(like a 10 sec pause and)oh my phone number,lol(I actually did laugh). I thought you meant my class number. I was gonna be like, we don't have rankings. But here is my number. Whats your number?"
[girl] - Its this.

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Well, it wasn't that much afc. It was just that I didn't expect her to ask for my telephone number. Her number was real btw. But ya.lol
 
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