"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"what's your number?"

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You know the whole deal

you ask for a chicks number, and they return your question with their own. Everyone monkey with half a brain knows that this is just an evasion tactic, and that most chicks have no intentions of calling a guy when they do this, but is there anyway you guys work with this?

I'm interested in some of your ideas. What do you do when this happens?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Sure. Take her cell, punch in your number and call your cell from her cell so you have her number.

"Great, you have my number and i have yours."
 

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Hold out your hand with a smile, like you are going for a handshake, then shake her hand LOOK HER RIGHT THEY EYE and say "it was nice meeting you..." and then turn and walk away...

When you do this, she will instantly wonder if she made a mistake. Women are attracted to men who show confidence. When you show her you don't play that game, you put her in her place.

99.9% of the time, women use this line as an aversion to rejecting a guy. Most women don't want to hurt the feelings of men...so they try to let them down easy by saying "what's your number?" instead.

If you place a high value on yourself, others will follow. If you put up with this crap...you will also leads others to follow. Its what you think of yourself before anyone else will follow (to the bedroom or anywhere else).

Remember a TRUE PUA values himself over women.

Don't put up with that...Smile, Shake and Walk!
 

Ease

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Say 'what the hell, i dont give out my number to strangers'

Great ****y funny ;)
 

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Ganondorf said:
You know the whole deal

you ask for a chicks number, and they return your question with their own. Everyone monkey with half a brain knows that this is just an evasion tactic, and that most chicks have no intentions of calling a guy when they do this, but is there anyway you guys work with this?

I'm interested in some of your ideas. What do you do when this happens?
This shouldn't happen in the first place.

You're right,it is an evasion tactic. If you going for the number ends with her using evasion tactics,that means you screwed up somewhere prior to asking for the number.

The point isn't to get her nmber,but her interest. If you gain her interest,the number will follow.

I'd look at your conversation leading up to the number close instead of trying to outwit an evasion tactitc.

That's where the problem lies.

The correct question should be,"Why is she trying to avoid giving me her number?". Find the answer to this,then you won't even have to deal with evasion tactitcs.

Good luck man.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'll give them my number anyway, cuz you never know. Chances are they wont call, but I've had a call from girls a month later out of the blue that lead to sex.

Have no expectations, but never entirely rule out a possibility, just so you can maintain high value. Whats it gonna hurt to give your number out? Igetit is right, though, if you encounter this in your interaction, it is your cue to try to raise her IL significantly before you part ways.
 

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I've also seen women being advised to ask for men's numbers ..."because men get your number and never call you..."
 

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Ease said:
Say 'what the hell, i dont give out my number to strangers'

Great ****y funny ;)
lol. lmfao. I could imagine me saying something like that. LOL. I almost did.
WARNING THE FOLLOWING QUOTE FROM MY PAST MAY HAVE GRAFFIX AFC MOMENTS, VIEWER DISCRETION IS ADVISED:

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"[girl] - Wow! You are in this class!"
[me]-"Ya, its freaking awesome that we have the same class"
"[girl] - so whats your number"
"[me] - .......(like a 10 sec pause and)oh my phone number,lol(I actually did laugh). I thought you meant my class number. I was gonna be like, we don't have rankings. But here is my number. Whats your number?"
[girl] - Its this.

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Well, it wasn't that much afc. It was just that I didn't expect her to ask for my telephone number. Her number was real btw. But ya.lol
 
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