What's your guys success rate with cold approach

[GeoMan]

How did you get over the fear of rejection?

 

[Tictac]

By recognizing that it's just talking to people.

 

[RangerMIke]

What do you mean by success rate? Ruler is right, either you land them or screen them out, either way you win.

 

[Poon King]

Looking at it from "success vs. failure" is your first problem. That is not the right way to view approaching women.

The purpose of approaching women is to see if they are open to having sex with you. If they are.. you get their contact information and move things along. If they are NOT interested, you just walk away. There is no failure or success.

Not every woman will be interested in having sex with you. This is not a "failure" on your part. It just means the woman you approached does not feel you have something she wants. Women care ONLY about what you can do for them.

 

[Who Dares Win]

I agree with poon king, cold approaching is just a way to add potential girls in your circle, if they make it clear they are not interested you still didnt lose anything unless you're very sensitive.

If by success you mean how many girls are positive after you approach them againt it depends from many factors, obviously if its a 10seconds approach its your look and body language alone to be evaluated, if you put a bigger effort and talk for minutes your personality and game will have a say as well.

If my success you mean how many give you sex after being cold approched the answer is not many, about 2 out of 10.

 

[ubercat]

The guys are right. Even in the cold approach it's not about you the biggest variable is how the girls feeling at the time. One of the biggest factors in determining if she is open 2 new sexual partners is whether or not she is ovulating. Good luck trying to control that.

She might really have a boyfriend have had a bad day ot be on her period. All things that might blow you out of the water but actually have nothing to do with you.

So it's pretty much like trying to find a new job your job is to keep trying and not **** it up so badly that you get screened out and keep applying for lots of jobs.

 

[ubercat]

By the way I'm pretty useless at cold approach and even I've managed to get laid from it. So I think it's main importance is as practice but sometimes there is some sexual profit as well

 

[DragonBlood]

"Success" can be broken down into many stages... you also overlook how just talking to people both male and female is empowering in and of itself!

approach: 100%
talk: 80%
numbers: 50%
dates (aka actually seeing them again): 10%
lays: <10%. Tricky though, because at this point the CA is over and the same rules as any date apply. SO if it goes well you would lay all of that 10% of the girls if you understand.


Another way of saying it is most of your numbers are flakes, but you should be sleeping or at least seeing one in ten of those woman you talked to again.