"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What's your guys success rate with cold approach
- Thread starter GeoMan
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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RangerMIke
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The purpose of approaching women is to see if they are open to having sex with you. If they are.. you get their contact information and move things along. If they are NOT interested, you just walk away. There is no failure or success.
Not every woman will be interested in having sex with you. This is not a "failure" on your part. It just means the woman you approached does not feel you have something she wants. Women care ONLY about what you can do for them.
Who Dares Win
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If by success you mean how many girls are positive after you approach them againt it depends from many factors, obviously if its a 10seconds approach its your look and body language alone to be evaluated, if you put a bigger effort and talk for minutes your personality and game will have a say as well.
If my success you mean how many give you sex after being cold approched the answer is not many, about 2 out of 10.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
She might really have a boyfriend have had a bad day ot be on her period. All things that might blow you out of the water but actually have nothing to do with you.
So it's pretty much like trying to find a new job your job is to keep trying and not **** it up so badly that you get screened out and keep applying for lots of jobs.
DragonBlood
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approach: 100%
talk: 80%
numbers: 50%
dates (aka actually seeing them again): 10%
lays: <10%. Tricky though, because at this point the CA is over and the same rules as any date apply. SO if it goes well you would lay all of that 10% of the girls if you understand.
Another way of saying it is most of your numbers are flakes, but you should be sleeping or at least seeing one in ten of those woman you talked to again.