"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What's your favorite charity? My experience on receiving financially, when giving!

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Ever since I got my job, I decided it would be a good idea to tithe 10% of my paychecks to charities. Something I have noticed is all the money that I've given out, I've received back, but in greater amounts!

My parents, who usually don't buy me things (hence the job), bought me several items that are worth well over the amount I had donated. I've been finding dollar bills on the ground on an almost daily basis. My paycheck at work says I worked WAY more hours than I thought I worked (didn't really pay attention). I feel happier and healthier than I ever have.

I've read some Biblical passage saying, "Give, and it will be given to you; good measure, crushed down, full and running over, they will give to you. For in the same measure as you give, it will be given to you again."

I was quite skeptical on this until I had actually done it! I read another article saying how giving money for a good cause puts you in a mindset of knowing that more money will come to you, that's why you're able to give. Notice guys like Bill Gates and Warren Buffett have given generously. Hmmmm....

What I want to know is, do you guys know of any charities that actually handle the money properly so that most of it goes out to help people? Kids, people with disabilities, etc...? If you do, please post them here!

I strongly advise those of you with money coming in, to just give a little something once in a while! Most of us are so blessed financially (especially here in America), I believe the least we can do is share a little something to help others!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Most charities are pure BS. For every $10 you donate, something like $1 dollars gets there. The rest is used to pay salaries, accomodation etc for the people working at the charity.
 

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Man.. That sucks to know.. I looked at the public financial records of the charity I donate to, and they only spend 8% of donations on the staff expenses, so I guess it also depends on the charity.
 

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The passage you referred to is Luke 6:37.

"Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven. Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you."

It bears a striking resemblance to Buddhist theology regarding karma.

btw, my favorite charity is Families Against Mandatory Minimums - http://www.famm.org/
 

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Bible_Belt said:
The passage you referred to is Luke 6:37.

"Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven. Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together and running over, will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured to you."

It bears a striking resemblance to Buddhist theology regarding karma.

btw, my favorite charity is Families Against Mandatory Minimums - http://www.famm.org/
Have you also experienced blessings from giving?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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But how would you know if you had?

A more Zen question would be - can we even tell a blessing from a curse? A small curse is a blessing if it keeps you from a larger curse. But again, we never really know what events are related.

I did get a hand-written thank-you from the famm president when I joined about ten years ago. I was kind of impressed with that.
 
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ChapStick said:
Ever since I got my job, I decided it would be a good idea to tithe 10% of my paychecks to charities. Something I have noticed is all the money that I've given out, I've received back, but in greater amounts!

I've read some Biblical passage saying, "Give, and it will be given to you; good measure, crushed down, full and running over, they will give to you. For in the same measure as you give, it will be given to you again."
What this means is that your spirit will be uplifted, and not your wallet!! Giving paper and receiving paper is not the purpose! It is the inner well being you receive from helping others!
 
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