"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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what's your experience with this line?

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Would opening a girl with "what's up" or "hows it going" or a common greeting work? I met most of my guy friends this way so would it work with girls, or should I try to use a more "clever" opener?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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immrtlwun

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It's usually the best opener. If you try some canned line, you come off as an unoriginal loser or its obvious that its canned. Although, usually once you break the ice, whether its a preplanned line or something as simple as "hey, how's it goin", its pretty easy to go from there.
 

DJ4Real

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Nothing clever is needed. Just simply open with something normal.
 

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yea... talk about something around u... and think of some topics before hand too.... helps out
 

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NO!!! u should use a line like : Baby, your legs must be tired cause you have been running through my mind all night! .

or hey I may not be Fred Flinstone, baby, but I can still make your bed rock!

THIS SH\IT WILL WORK!!!!




NOT!!!!

guys who use pick up lines are considered to be people who lack self-confidence , and dont go around and ask a girl what her sign is , thats just lame.....

be natural be yourself , just say what u would say to any normal human being , hey , whats up , hey whats happenin ? **** like that

peace =)
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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oakraiderz2

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Originally posted by MightyMate
It works but mostly You have to be good at talking. Mainly girl answers for it 'What?' "Who are You?'. I also use this line but im very good at talks.
Most girls WONT respond like that. They may not be enthusiastic, but they wont act like that unless theyre a COMPLETE b*tch.
 
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Yeah, I thought a canned line would be kind of stupid... but I always read advice about "openers"... and apparently people have used them to some degree of success
 

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By far one of the worst lines. you usually say this if there is nothing else in the whole world that would be decent that you could think of at that moment. Saying whats up or hi etc is showing that your interested. Be more unique man, I really think you should open how some natural PUAs open. Its all non canned material and **** that your wiping up on the fly while still using DJ/PUA elements.

Why would a girl want to speak to a lame who just comes up to her asking how is she doin and she doesn't even know him. You telegraph so much interest. I'm not saying there isn't no chance because anything with luck can help. Bring her into your reality not you into hers.

Instead of saying hi, whats up etc. Did you just see that guy? he just... (go into a fake story)

You: Hey, which toy should i buy for my baby cousin
Her: hmmm ...(cut her off)
You: You see he is really into wrestling cause my ex gf used to take him to wwe and he would be so excited with his poster me and her drew for him. But then we have here HOT wheels which he loves cars he wants to be a nascar driver when he grows up.
Her: blah blah blah

then go into some
DHV (In middle of story do a "Sniper" neg and keep on going with the story.)
An go on from there. Who knows maybe when i go to toys r us i'm going to try that story out I had just thought up in my head:)

My advice to all that hate canned material is to learn alot of elements behind the material and make up your on while in the set.
 

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ARE YOU FVCKING SERIOUS!!!!!! "Will it work?"

Why do you just try it and learn on your own instead of wasting time posting this crap. What do you expect her to say, "fuk you"? NO, SHE WON'T.

Just do it.:down:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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