"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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whats your experience with females who say they are celibate..

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Came across a chick who.made a point of mentioning she is celibate. Not going to lie my first thought was eject. Not because I am only after sex, but if I do start digging her im not going to wait for months/years for her to feel im "worthy"..

What's your experience with chicks who claim celibacy?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Could be a test, might not be. Only way to find out is to spout some game.
She might fall at the first hurdle, or put a few up. If the latter then chat her without much care of the outcome, only you will know how long you'll want to try turning her around - make sure you got those other plates to distract you - good luck.
 
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cola said:
Came across a chick who.made a point of mentioning she is celibate. Not going to lie my first thought was eject. Not because I am only after sex, but if I do start digging her im not going to wait for months/years for her to feel im "worthy"..

What's your experience with chicks who claim celibacy?
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If a chick mentions she's "celibate". She could like you but not as much as another dude who comes along that she becomes "un-celibate" with.

You have to turn it around on them quickly so as not to waste your time having to "prove" yourself to her.

Ask questions on the topic right away. "So when did you decide to become celibate and why?"

You can start to get a feel if she's possibly an "ex" h0e or damaged in some way. (most likely) And you'll sense if she's going to run her newly found "celibacy" game on you till someone better comes along.

She could be saying it because she either doesn't find you sexually attractive, she's been used and abused and will abuse you by not giving it up and stringing you along testing how "h0rny" you are. "Oh he just wants me for sex" would be her justification to herself and answer if you went along with it and then eventually got tired of the nonsense. (As if she's never going to have sex again or you're going to wait till you're her forever boyfriend or husband. Whatever she'll use as an answer.)

You've got to ask probing questions quick with a chick like that and if the answers aren't to your liking..BOUNCE. "So how long do you plan to stay celibate for?" "Are you going to become a nun?"
"What do you do while trying to stay celibate? Do you just not ever think about sex?"
If she gets annoyed I'd pretty much not waste my time...IF she answers and plays along you can slowly test the waters by her answers IE: "I'm staying celibate till I get married."

Where you could ask and respond accordingly with something like: "Well wouldn't you want to at least be experienced enough to please your future husband/boyfriend? You could practice with a good secret private teacher so you'd have a great sex life in your marriage/ with your boyfriend."

You'd see pretty much right away if she's just giving YOU resistance and would be a waste of time withholding sex till you "prove" yourself...OR she's slowly letting down her sheild and needs a "private teacher".

Don't be afraid to question chicks like that ASAP. As if chicks actually expect a dude to NOT want to have sex. And as if they can't actually like them if they are. (If she thinks you can't actually like someone and have sex and can only "truly like" them while waiting. You have to decide if you want to waste time with her or not.)

You may decide to say fug it I'm not wasting my time for who knows when....or you may just quickly bypass the sheild and be "teaching" her privately sooner than you thought.

Something made her come to her "decision" and I'm thinking it's not good. Whether she's been around a bit, been used and abused and will take it out on you, or she's trying to run weak game to maipulate you which wouldn't end no matter how good you were to her.

Quick questioning on that topic. You have to decide if it's worth it. No one else can do it for you.
 
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