Whats your definiton of a "plate"?

[Solomon]

I see lot of guys talking about "plates" and such. I was just curious to know what your definiton of one was? is it a girl who you have contact with? someone you fcuk? date?

Personally I consider a plate a girl 1. That I've hung out with on one one basis. 2. There has been some level of intimacy

However unlike most I don't call them "plates" but girls on the roster (i.e.basketball team lol)

For me girls who I got numbers but haven't done the two things I just consider prospects

I'm just curious to know peoples definiton on this topic, since I've seen some guys claim they have 8 plates etc etc

Solo

 

[Furyguy]

My understanding of it: a girl that you have some interest in, with whom you either could, or will attempt to, transition into a serious relationship with.

So a girlfriend is not. A **** buddy is. A girl you have dated casually is. A friend is not. A casual acquaintance you plan on pursuing is. A girl who was already shot you down is not.

So basically not friendship in that there is a sexual aspect, but without any commitment yet. Pretty close to what you said.



But I don't use the term except for on these forums anyways. I think labels like this are stupid and just cloud your head with unnecessary theory bull****. They're great for teaching new guys the theory though!

 

[bigjohnson]

If I'm not screwing her, she's not a plate. I have to have gotten in her pants more than once and still be maintaining contact with on a regular basis. If I can't call her up and set up a date that will end up in boinking within a week she's not a plate, she's a friend.

 

[Smack]

To me, it is a girl I believe I have a reasonable chance of intimate relations with. Nothing has to be happening between us, we can be friends or just see her occasionally (but know that she fancies me). Obviously, not all female friends are plates, and neither is some girl that's all over me in at a club.

 

[daygameguy]

A plate is a female you have an intimate relationship with. Sex may/may not be a part of your relationship yet, but its intimate, can lead to something serious (girlfriend/LTR).