Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What's your Biggest Down Fall With WOMEN??

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Giving them an inch, and her taking it a mile.

I'm BIG TIME disappointed in myself on a situation that transpired last night @ work.

The important thing is that I'M disappointed in MYSELF, and not being disappointed in the GIRL.

Throw away your ego and vanity, and get deep in the hole.

Also, like 85%+ of people on this forum, whether you'd like to admit it or not - I fall much too easily for that girl I dig. Glad a few guys are throwing that out there in this thread..

However, there's been less and less of them over the past few years. 1 this year..0 last year..
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Deicide

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I can't create attraction with women, and they never stick around with me. I can approach anyone I want, but my sticking point is the inability to create attraction.
 

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Biggest downfall? Not having "nice shoes, let's ****" work every single time.
 

Sparky

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Re-ac-tor said:
Giving them an inch, and her taking it a mile.
Same here. Once you get that girl's face, curves, smell, hair in your brain all the time it's easy to lose track of boundaries.
 

Amazing

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I can get almost any girl connected - but I will LJBF myself before I **** her, because I am emotional - I want to like her 100% so I am open 100% and want her to do the same - two mistakes, most women want to discover things about a guy herself - so she can probably paint him in a certain label

and she will probably not open up 100% - growing up as a girl is pretty skeleton-y...especially if she is an easy girl to ****


so my advice if you want to actually **** them - be absolutely calm cold and don't even THINK about anything but very short term - she is thinking the same, trust me
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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FortunateSon

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Average looking on the outside, repulsive on the inside.

Get jealous too easily.

Still a Virgin.

Get too emotional.
 

Thundernuts

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First off. Hello Sosauve, its been to long.

Secondly, I would say that my biggest downfall with women(especially i end up caring about) is im not a greedy guy by nature, when i do something i look at whats best for myself, and other parties. I usually end up killing our feelings intentionally so she can move on with her life and move somewhere far away to go college or something like that. I do it because i care and want them to succeed and not be tripping over not being near me.
 

WhitePimp

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I have zero motivation for asking women out. I love them, want to bang them, but just don't ever put in any effort to get them. Most of the ones I've gotten have literally approached me, or gave me overtly brazen IOI's that were impossible to ignore. I'm a great flirt and have tons of confidence in myself, but lack any interest in going through the motions of dating. If I could just smash random girls at will, I would. But you have to go through the whole get the number, call/text routine, first date nonsense, etc...I have no interest in that.
 

European-DJ

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Mistakes..

My biggest mistake is, that i have forgotten everything about "love".. So for some reason, i THINK i fall in love with every 7+ I ****, every pretty girl i have sex with i fall in love with.

I tend to fall for EVERYONE, after a second or two..

Another thing i would like to work with, is the ONS .. I have had 2-3 since i started, which is not enough - i must honestly admit i am working very hard on this part, but my biggest issue is, that i HATE taking a "needy" girl home..
- If it after 5 mins alredy is clear too me, that i could **** this girl without problems, i tend to ditch her..
 

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My nose, I hate it but noone else notices it... I been getting alot of play (seein as I havent posted in a while). But, i still cant stop sweating it. no matter how many chicks i get with. :/
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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bob2007

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I think women are sensitive and men are logical. So I never understand them using logic. I live by discipline and integrity and sometimes they do not like this by the things I say. So from now on I will remove these initial red flags. I will lie more tell them what they want to hear.

I've had problems getting second dates. I also believe in keeping the fire steady rather than waiting too long to call / hangout / talk and her losing attraction.
 

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I'm awful at screening women. I've dated so many crazies, BPDs, etc. that I've lost count. The red flags are usually there, but I have a tendency to be so shallow that I ignore them just because the chick is hot. The end result is me usually banging them for a month or two and then having my life threatened because I supposedly "used" them.

I've been trying to get away from the bar/party scene to pick up women. It's a challenge.
 
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