Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
My attitude is pretty bad. The more times you get screwed over in a relationship, the worse your attitude gets. But the less you respect women the easier all of this gets I think?
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Is this really what we're down to?Bible_Belt said:My attitude is pretty bad. The more times you get screwed over in a relationship, the worse your attitude gets. But the less you respect women the easier all of this gets I think?
Fred Da Head said:And this is why you don't get laid. There are literally millions of things harder than sleeping with a women--even with a very attractive one.
You can get attractive women like that too!DonJuan11 said:Anything else in the world I can do with money and practice.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Well, if you like young girls... you got bigger problems than trying to pick up women. Besides, if you can't pick up women with practice, there's something wrong with you. If Ross Jeffries and Mystery can pick up and screw chicks, anybody can.DonJuan11 said:Like what? Anything else in the world I can do with money and practice. There is no convenience store when I can pick up an attractive young girl is there?
Say what? This is what I meant when I said we've crossed the line into dehumanization of women.Alkali said:I should be viewing them as a type of ongoing experiment.
How do you know that they want to be treated the way that you would want to be treated?Alkali said:Unfortunately, I follow the golden rule.
"Treat other the way you want to be treated."....