Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
My attitude is pretty bad. The more times you get screwed over in a relationship, the worse your attitude gets. But the less you respect women the easier all of this gets I think?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Is this really what we're down to?Bible_Belt said:My attitude is pretty bad. The more times you get screwed over in a relationship, the worse your attitude gets. But the less you respect women the easier all of this gets I think?
Fred Da Head said:And this is why you don't get laid. There are literally millions of things harder than sleeping with a women--even with a very attractive one.
You can get attractive women like that too!DonJuan11 said:Anything else in the world I can do with money and practice.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Well, if you like young girls... you got bigger problems than trying to pick up women. Besides, if you can't pick up women with practice, there's something wrong with you. If Ross Jeffries and Mystery can pick up and screw chicks, anybody can.DonJuan11 said:Like what? Anything else in the world I can do with money and practice. There is no convenience store when I can pick up an attractive young girl is there?
Say what? This is what I meant when I said we've crossed the line into dehumanization of women.Alkali said:I should be viewing them as a type of ongoing experiment.
How do you know that they want to be treated the way that you would want to be treated?Alkali said:Unfortunately, I follow the golden rule.
"Treat other the way you want to be treated."....