"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What's your answer to "are you seeing someone else?"

Reckoning

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You say no, and if she believes you, you lose the mystery and drop in her eyes.

You say yes, her interest level goes up or down depending on whether she wants strings.

Any "in between" answers you guys keep in your bag of tricks?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ThatGuyTR

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In some instances, its ok to say yes because you dont' want to give off the impression that she's the only thing you're focused on although you're not in relationship.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Maximus Rex

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One of the Few Times That You Lie

Always answer "yes," to this question, even if it isn't true.
 
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Always avoid the question in situations like these with a grin. Change the subject - if she presses you on it say "it's nothing serious" or "I value my independence" then ask what's for lunch.

Hamster in overdrive.
 

MOTU

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"Why, do you have someone in mind for me?"

"Not tonight, it's just me and you baby"

"Everyone else"

"My harem is at a bit of a high tide at the moment but I am gonna do some cleanup"
 

RangerMIke

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MOTU said:
"Why, do you have someone in mind for me?"

"Not tonight, it's just me and you baby"

"Everyone else"

"My harem is at a bit of a high tide at the moment but I am gonna do some cleanup"

Don't answer yes or no.....

All above are excellent responses. Make a joke about it, keep it light and funny... if she keeps pushing, just keep joking. If she get's ticked off and pitches a fit, then move on, because you don't want to be with a gal that is too serious and doesn't know how to have some fun.
 

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"Not just someone else, but several other people. Wanna join the team?"
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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