"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tired

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This girl i known for 3 years, told her to be my gf got rejected in a nice way. I was pretty sad and abt to move on. 3 days later she said she needed time to think. Ok was quite happy. She told me she prefer if we come out and talked face to face. I was okay. When it was the day she said she couldnt make it too busy. 1 week and 3 days has passed. We did sms each other. But why i always feeling i am the one initiating. But whenever she replies i feel she is excited. hmmm and to add matters worst we haven confirmed the date to meet yet. Damn is she tryin to play games. Didnt she mention shes is scared of games coz she mention what if one 4got the rules and play by the heart. Can she even recognise this so called game she says is always hurting her. arghh i am naive i guess. :box:

Now should i wait for her to initate the date or try to confirm the date? Meantime i truely want to believe she needs more time. But sometimes i really feel she is just tryin to think of a good way to reject me again
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I would say next. Yes you are Naive and you havent read the bible at all or put in any work to your DJ skills at all. Read the bible, get out there and forget about one girl.
 
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