"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Tired

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This girl i known for 3 years, told her to be my gf got rejected in a nice way. I was pretty sad and abt to move on. 3 days later she said she needed time to think. Ok was quite happy. She told me she prefer if we come out and talked face to face. I was okay. When it was the day she said she couldnt make it too busy. 1 week and 3 days has passed. We did sms each other. But why i always feeling i am the one initiating. But whenever she replies i feel she is excited. hmmm and to add matters worst we haven confirmed the date to meet yet. Damn is she tryin to play games. Didnt she mention shes is scared of games coz she mention what if one 4got the rules and play by the heart. Can she even recognise this so called game she says is always hurting her. arghh i am naive i guess. :box:

Now should i wait for her to initate the date or try to confirm the date? Meantime i truely want to believe she needs more time. But sometimes i really feel she is just tryin to think of a good way to reject me again
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I would say next. Yes you are Naive and you havent read the bible at all or put in any work to your DJ skills at all. Read the bible, get out there and forget about one girl.
 
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