"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Tired

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This girl i known for 3 years, told her to be my gf got rejected in a nice way. I was pretty sad and abt to move on. 3 days later she said she needed time to think. Ok was quite happy. She told me she prefer if we come out and talked face to face. I was okay. When it was the day she said she couldnt make it too busy. 1 week and 3 days has passed. We did sms each other. But why i always feeling i am the one initiating. But whenever she replies i feel she is excited. hmmm and to add matters worst we haven confirmed the date to meet yet. Damn is she tryin to play games. Didnt she mention shes is scared of games coz she mention what if one 4got the rules and play by the heart. Can she even recognise this so called game she says is always hurting her. arghh i am naive i guess. :box:

Now should i wait for her to initate the date or try to confirm the date? Meantime i truely want to believe she needs more time. But sometimes i really feel she is just tryin to think of a good way to reject me again
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I would say next. Yes you are Naive and you havent read the bible at all or put in any work to your DJ skills at all. Read the bible, get out there and forget about one girl.
 
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