What's wrong with me?

[Ziken]

This is a cry for help to my fellow men in the dating business. I hope you can help me out.

I find myself not wanting to initiate contact with any girl. I broke up with my 2-year only girflriend about 2 years ago, and was really a mess. For some reason I wasn't being atracted to the women I knew, had many female friends but wasn't into any of them, I even turned down a girl I was spending a lot of time with (as friends) cause she wanted to be with me as a couple.
A few weeks ago I finally met someone I totally liked. It was a party, I approached her like a true DJ, we danced all night and then abruptly she left cause she was with some friends (actually two of my best friends).
To make the story short I had our mutual friends fix me up one night we all went to a club. The next day I asked her out, we catched a movie and talked, but guess what? after meeting her I again found myself not liking this girl that a few nights ago had me all thrilled up.

Yesterday I realized when I'm walking a street I don't look at girls in the eyes. As soon as I realized that I fixed into the next girl that went by and she fixed on me back, I chickened out.

Am I afraid of women of something? Maybe it's a personality issue... Any advice?

BTW: I'm 22.

 

[rgeere]

Did you ever have lots of experience with girls when you were younger?

Or a male role-model?

Did your mother raise you?

There is an internal reason why you are lacking motivation, and you know that you have the syptoms of this in your life and in your relationships with females.

You don't have to say on this board unless you are comfortable with the possible judgement of others. Pm me if you want nevertheless and it will all remain confidential.

 

[SealTeamSix]

Take it easy bro ..

1. Don't think too much. Just enjoy being with them ..

2. Do not be afraid. They are girls not some wild man eating animals! (although some women look like they can eat men for sure)

 

[DJ Alejandro]

you're still attached to your ex girlfriend. that's it.

 

[DJ Alejandro]

although from time to time girls do try to bite..

 

[PeeGee]

Which isn't always a bad thing

 

[rgeere]

Unless of course the girl aims the bite below the belt. What was that womans's name? Bobbit or something?