Whats wrong with me, and how do I fix it?

[mvox]

SoSuave,

I'm 19, finished first year of college. The problem with me is that I just find my life being very empty. I have no friends, no fun, etc. I've had a GF for a year, but im not truly happy with the relationship. Shes okay but I feel I can do better. The problem is that other than her, I have no one. I am a bit shy but once I get the ball rolling I can be good with females.

Believe it or not I am good looking (i'd say a 7 out of 10). I worked out strenuously all year but have stopped for the past 3 months, but I plan to start that up again. Physically I am fine, I am smart, I make good grades, I even run my own business and make close to six figs at my low age, have a flashy car, etc, but I still feel empty. I find myself moping alot, my days seem very short and boring.

I am not in my college town right now, but rather in my boring home city, but I am hoping to change things up again once I return. I have read the DJ bible articles before but I feel I am still lacking. Any advice appreciated.

 

[spitkicker]

Hey man, I've been in a very similar spot. Trust me.

The first thing you need to do is get out of your relationship. It's draining you of your precious energy. Life isn't about settling because there aren't any other options.

Next, you need to focus on honing your social skills. Go to my blog and read through the past 4 months of stuff, it shouldn't take you too long, but it should really give you a good sense about the direction you want to be headed in.

In terms of getting chicks, I feel that you might be a little closed. You have to focus on opening up to girls and relating on an emotional level.....yeah, just go to my blog and read it along with SpiritFingers' blog and the Charisma Arts blog. We'll get this girl situation figured out!

In terms of finding fufillment...take up cool new hobbies. Do you cook? Know anything about wine and whiskey? Race sportscars? Read Philosophy? Rock Climb? Yoga? Religion?

Let's get this life back in order!

 

[MetalFortress]

Lack of relational and spiritual fulfillment... Relationally, you aren't happy with your girl, so take a risk and dump her. Spiritually, seek out Jesus Christ.