"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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What's with this chick?

HuggyBear

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Ok This both sick and funny to me at least. One day I was at my witts end about this woman I was trying to bang. So I decided to ask this woman who I know what her opinion is "yeah I know don't ask woman for opinions" she gave it to me. Then somehow we was talking about people liking her and she said I know people have crushes on me but I don't care. I got the vibe by the way she was talking that she was uncomfortable talking about people having crushes on her so I stopped. Then the convo turned back to the woman I was asking her about and anything sexual she did to me. Well she told me to go somewhere else and call her and tell her it over the phone "why is that?". When it turned sexual she wanted me to tell her over the phone???? Now this chick is goofy so she does sometimes say silly things. But lately she will get me to go outside and smoke with her and like last week she had the flu so she is telling me how it was coming out both ends, but she went into detail. She just says stupid things all the time so i don't know how to take this like today she is saying that she has a bubble butt she told me that before. Then we had chinesse food and I gave her a ragoon to try and she opens it up and see's the cream chesse and she says ewww this looks like me when I have a yeast infection. So I carry handcuffs for my job and she asks me to see if I can handcuff her ankles. So what is with this chick???? Do I have a chance with her? is she doing anything good?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She's on crack! or she's testing you to (literally) see how much sh** you'll put up with.
 

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I just re-read your post and I still have no advice for you. Why are you attracted to this woman?

Do you have a chance with her?

She might have lost interest and is being goofy and gross, so as to make herself less attractive to you.

Is she doing anything good?

not from what you posted
 

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"But lately she will get me to go outside and smoke with her and like last week she had the flu so she is telling me how it was coming out both ends, but she went into detail. "

Dude, if any girl told me that ****...unless it was a friend and I dont like them like that...I would kick them to the curb.

Im sorry but I like a girl with class, and talking about sh*t like that is not classy. But if you're into that (then you're a sick bastard, lol) then I would say stick with it.

honestly though, it seems like shes testing to see how much you'll put up with.
 

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Yeah she's definitely amusing herself and your expense. Usually girls who talk a big game are full of shiat when it really comes down to it. I'd make fun of her and tell her stupid shiat too and see how she reacts. She seems like a waste of time though.



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“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Yeah she is just crazy. what I was wondering was why when we was talking about sex did she want me to do it over the phone instead of inperson since we was already talking?
 

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Originally posted by rgeere
I think she was really telling you to get lost....
Well when I got to where I was going she called me. Oh well just thought it was funny.
 
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