"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What's with the book length posts in the "Tips" Section

Cesare Cardinali

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I find it strange that our "Tips" section is full of giant posts that are more appropriate for the main discussion page. For example, here is a recent one:

http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=32713&perpage=20&pagenumber=1

To me, a tip is something short and to the point that can be put to immediate and practical use. For example, a tip about what kind of opener to use on a girl, or where to take her on a first date, etc would only be a couple of sentences max. In fact, the email I get from this site "DJ Tip of the Day" is short and to the point, while the newsletter is much longer.

Now with that said, I find it strange that there are giant "Tips" posted in the "Tips" section that don't get moved to the general discussion section.

So my question is, what makes these types of long threads "Tips"? And if they are not tips, then why don't they get moved to the discussion forum?

This is not an isolated case BTW. Most of Pooks posts, which are very long, were posted in the tips section as well, even though they sparked a great deal of discussion and do not really fall under *my* definition of a tip.

Can someone clarify this?

Thanks.

Cesare
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Good question

I wondered the same thing, but then...

Don Juan Tips: (emphasis added)
Post a tip, technique, idea, or article that you've experienced or read about and feel would benefit your fellow Dons in understanding and being more successful with women.
Don Juan Discussion:
Discuss meeting, dating, and attracting women with others. Ask a question or give advice.
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Dell SkyCat

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Cesare, As you've said about a tip being short 2 the point and can be put immediately into use...I think your confusion with your classification of a tip and sosuave is mostly because you seem to classify a tip as more of a 'technique' than anything else. On the other hand, *MY* definition of a tip is an enlightenment towards something that will add to my latice of being more successful with women and put to use immediately as well as understanding. Although I do become discouraged to read a discussion than just a straight to the poin tip where a discussion would not be neccessary.

Like this...http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=33082

Or this..http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=32916

but maybe you might prefer something like this...http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/showthread.php?s=&threadid=16309

as opposed to this...http://www.sosuave.com/vBulletin/sh...20&pagenumber=1



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