What's with so many hardcase broads?

[bluenorther]

I just keep meeting them everywhere... living on the edge, or already toppled off it. You never see men getting so broken down over our choices. NEVER.

I've had this one client for years-- cute, fun, flirty, but she had a live-in boyfriend taking pretty good care of her. I never wanted to move on her, because he was a cool guy, and I didn't want to get between them. He died last year, after a long and miserable bout with colon cancer. She's got some habits I don't care for-- tobacco, and vodka with her morning o.j., but I couldn't stop dreaming about the taste of her pousse'!
So, now I'm spending serious time with her, and she's another hardcase-- greeted me Sunday, in tears. Her world's falling apart, she desperately just needs a man to hold her and let her bawl her eyes out. My hopes for a pump-and-dump evaporate. I'd feel like I'm betraying a friend-- which is right, since we've known each other so long. There's no possible way I can fix anything in her life. I can't walk away, either. We sleep together but haven't even fncked yet and she's already thinking of having me move in! Wrong-- Her house looks like it's from American Hoarders, before the crews arrive. She's gotta fix her life herself, because I can't do it for her. Well-- She can't, either.
One more discovery I made-- she smokes meth. It's why she's got teeth missing? It doesn't exactly rule her life, but at this point, I'd never tell her to quit, because it's probably the last thing keeping her going.

My last romance ended because she needed to simplify her chaotic life, so she began with me. She was the gorgeous yuppie suburban executive-trophy (ex)wife, professional architect/cheerleader mom who rides horses with her galpals. I saw her last week, and she looked like she was in pain. I'd like to ask her how things have gotten better, since she dumped me. Her friends refuse to talk about her around me.

 

[Burroughs]

not surprising

this is the dark side of feminism writ large...women who are hot enough to play the hypergamy cards hit the wall at 40 and then the house of cards fall apart

for a woman with no man, no ability to get a man = life is over

women are forever children and cannot live independent lives...those who do are shrewlike masculine resentful sociopaths...women need men to guide them and nurture them all through life...because women never mature mentally past the age of 14...never....a man must own is woman body, and soul and under the law in all aspects....but this pillar will never be in the west until the central banks crumble...then we begin anew.

in our present 'modern' age unfettered misandric feminism is the way of things...governments rule men's lives as they allow women to play the hypergamy cards with only men having to bear the consequences....expect more broken, forlorn, aging women to come....more pump and dump opportunities for the willing; no wife material whatsoever.

 

[scrouds]

I just keep meeting them everywhere... living on the edge, or already toppled off it. You never see men getting so broken down over our choices. NEVER.

I've had this one client for years-- cute, fun, flirty, but she had a live-in boyfriend taking pretty good care of her. I never wanted to move on her, because he was a cool guy, and I didn't want to get between them. He died last year, after a long and miserable bout with colon cancer. She's got some habits I don't care for-- tobacco, and vodka with her morning o.j., but I couldn't stop dreaming about the taste of her pousse'!
So, now I'm spending serious time with her, and she's another hardcase-- greeted me Sunday, in tears. Her world's falling apart, she desperately just needs a man to hold her and let her bawl her eyes out. My hopes for a pump-and-dump evaporate. I'd feel like I'm betraying a friend-- which is right, since we've known each other so long. There's no possible way I can fix anything in her life. I can't walk away, either. We sleep together but haven't even fncked yet and she's already thinking of having me move in! Wrong-- Her house looks like it's from American Hoarders, before the crews arrive. She's gotta fix her life herself, because I can't do it for her. Well-- She can't, either.
One more discovery I made-- she smokes meth. It's why she's got teeth missing? It doesn't exactly rule her life, but at this point, I'd never tell her to quit, because it's probably the last thing keeping her going.

My last romance ended because she needed to simplify her chaotic life, so she began with me. She was the gorgeous yuppie suburban executive-trophy (ex)wife, professional architect/cheerleader mom who rides horses with her galpals. I saw her last week, and she looked like she was in pain. I'd like to ask her how things have gotten better, since she dumped me. Her friends refuse to talk about her around me.

You're giving her what she wants and you're not even getting laid? My friend, you gotta put #1 first. Get what you want, as up front as possible, and maybe you can give her some of what she wants.

 

[scrouds]

I just keep meeting them everywhere... living on the edge, or already toppled off it. You never see men getting so broken down over our choices. NEVER.

I've had this one client for years-- cute, fun, flirty, but she had a live-in boyfriend taking pretty good care of her. I never wanted to move on her, because he was a cool guy, and I didn't want to get between them. He died last year, after a long and miserable bout with colon cancer. She's got some habits I don't care for-- tobacco, and vodka with her morning o.j., but I couldn't stop dreaming about the taste of her pousse'!
So, now I'm spending serious time with her, and she's another hardcase-- greeted me Sunday, in tears. Her world's falling apart, she desperately just needs a man to hold her and let her bawl her eyes out. My hopes for a pump-and-dump evaporate. I'd feel like I'm betraying a friend-- which is right, since we've known each other so long. There's no possible way I can fix anything in her life. I can't walk away, either. We sleep together but haven't even fncked yet and she's already thinking of having me move in! Wrong-- Her house looks like it's from American Hoarders, before the crews arrive. She's gotta fix her life herself, because I can't do it for her. Well-- She can't, either.
One more discovery I made-- she smokes meth. It's why she's got teeth missing? It doesn't exactly rule her life, but at this point, I'd never tell her to quit, because it's probably the last thing keeping her going.

My last romance ended because she needed to simplify her chaotic life, so she began with me. She was the gorgeous yuppie suburban executive-trophy (ex)wife, professional architect/cheerleader mom who rides horses with her galpals. I saw her last week, and she looked like she was in pain. I'd like to ask her how things have gotten better, since she dumped me. Her friends refuse to talk about her around me.

You're giving her what she wants and you're not even getting laid? My friend, you gotta put #1 first. Get what you want, as up front as possible, and maybe you can give her some of what she wants.

 

[bluenorther]

Ross Jeffries has good advice-- Always leave a woman in better shape than you found her. This one's such a hot mess, having secks would only make her worse. Plus, it would leave her clinging on me. She's made it obvious, she's not into fnck-and-run-- she wants a stickaround man.

 

[Warrior74]

Ross Jeffries has good advice-- Always leave a woman in better shape than you found her. This one's such a hot mess, having secks would only make her worse. Plus, it would leave her clinging on me. She's made it obvious, she's not into fnck-and-run-- she wants a stickaround man.

THat's terrible advice. This is a human being, not a goddam campsite you have to police before you leave. Following that advice is beta as fvck and white knightish as hell. A better saying would be, don't do any intentional harm. You can't make anyone better who doesn't want to be. All you can do is be kind in a rationally self interested sort of way. Which means that if it is gonna drag you down, the kindest thing you can do is just leave.

Also, as meth played a key role in ruining my last serious relationship.... RUN MUTHA****A RUN! Any chic who's friends with Tina is no friend of mine.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Blue Norther,
"Always leave a woman in better shape than you found her. This one's such a hot mess, having secks would only make her worse. Plus, it would leave her clinging on me. She's made it obvious, she's not into fnck-and-run-- she wants a stickaround man.".....Yes don't they all,however she who calls the tune,must pay the Piper....Don't worry too much,Women have been paying in kind for Millennia....You were right in showing restraint,doubtless the Guardian Angel who sits on your shoulders suggested,her life style,(and her habits could be contagious) is Bad News....Yes she has had bad luck,but though like you,I would also show Christian sympathy,remember even the good book encourages one to "Show Charity,to Widows,and those that grieve",not to get emotionally involved with them.

 

[bluenorther]

Christian sympathy-- yeah, I like how that sounds. This dame just turned 51, I'm 58... I've stopped being judgemental anymore; it doesn't change things or do any good.

 

[BMX]

How is it beta white knight? Only a guy who has options can "afford"(or more easily afford) to not use damaged women for sex. There's nothing wrong with helping people. Ultimately, he is implying the same strategy as you anyway: don't have sex with her.

There is a difference between helping people and helping people help themselves.

 

[Warrior74]

How is it beta white knight? Only a guy who has options can "afford"(or more easily afford) to not use damaged women for sex. There's nothing wrong with helping people. Ultimately, he is implying the same strategy as you anyway: don't have sex with her.

It's an empty platitude. To the AFC mindset it's a reinforcement of the same mindset. Your job is not to improve anyone but yourself, this goes for men and women. It's a statement that can easily be misconstrued. I see guys who whine and lament over the lack of appreciation they get after they have done so much to "make her better". It's bad writing and bad advice.

And still no one else is calling this guy out for dabbling with a meth head. No judgement indeed.

 

[QuadDeuces]

Smells awefully lot like BPD. Bail and run like forrest, it will leave you wrecked.

 

[backbreaker]

I mean bro.. she's missing teeth lol. what did you honestly expect lady bird johnson?

teeth missing is kinda a writing on the wall type thing

 

[bluenorther]

Jeez, all I wanted to was to get laid! She's been flirting on me for ages... I didn't know there was all this back story...

 

[Warrior74]

Jeez, all I wanted to was to get laid! She's been flirting on me for ages... I didn't know there was all this back story...

Just wanting to get laid is what led most of us here. Not thinking it through. Now you know better. Not worth your time mate.