"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Whats with my wife?

Atom Smasher

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Men, this is a perfect example of what happens when the basics aren’t handled before the marriage. Be on the lookout for a thread on what to handle and how to handle it when laying the groundwork for a LTR. The responsibility is YOURS and yours alone. The woman is incapable of doing this. You can get astounding levels of agreement and devotion from her when you know how to do this. It is imperative that a man steps up to the plate and lays out the parameters.

Hint: It isn’t done directly. It is fine via the fine art of musing about life in her presence. The power of subtlety is enormous.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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sph21

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Literally have a kid coming today or tomorrow. 1st ever child and i get hit with these thoughts.
If she hates you during pregnancy, then it's normal. Your guts is right.

 

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Men, this is a perfect example of what happens when the basics aren’t handled before the marriage. Be on the lookout for a thread on what to handle and how to handle it when laying the groundwork for a LTR. The responsibility is YOURS and yours alone. The woman is incapable of doing this. You can get astounding levels of agreement and devotion from her when you know how to do this. It is imperative that a man steps up to the plate and lays out the parameters.

Hint: It isn’t done directly. It is fine via the fine art of musing about life in her presence. The power of subtlety is enormous.
This is the living TRUTH and how I condition females I am involved with...That being said, I am now very much looking forward to your thread...Cheers

Awesome Life Tip ›› If we don’t honor, enforce and respect Our own boundaries, no one else will. We teach others how to treat Us by how we treat Ourselves and how much We let them get away with. Stop allowing people into your life who are disrespectful, cruel, demanding or anything along those lines. Take responsibility for your time and how you’re treated.
 
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