"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What's With All These Posts?

justiceseeker

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Is it the weather? Why are so many guys, including myself, posting about how some woman dumped them? If you've read my posts, you'll know I have my own set of issues with a certain woman. But, after reading these posts, I' starting to come to the conclusion that women are ****ING CRAZY!!!!!!


I see these guys posting, and I realized how much time we're all wasting worrying about women who are the scum of the earth. Women who don't have an ounce of integrity, who will pull the rug out from underneath you at a moment's notice. This is starting to become an epidemic in our society.

How many of you know some guy, or it could even be yourself, who thought he was in a loving, stable relationship only to wake up one morning and find it all gone?

How many of you were driving nice cars and had lots of money in the bank, only to find yourself broke after some bytch who you thought loved you dropped your ass with no warning?

How many of you have been used for money, favors etc, but were never good enough to hang out with just for the sake of being together?

If you're anything like me, it's happened a lot. I laugh when i read these reports about how men who are married live longer than single men. SURE, but these reports are talking about guys in their 60's and 70's who married women who had integrity. Women from your grandma's era were so much different than modern women. Being married to someone like that would lengthen your life, that does not apply to modern day *****s.

We have to face reality fellas, MOST women just aren't worth it these days. You're taking an awful chance falling in love with someone who can turn on you at the drop of a hat. That's what's so sinister about women. If a guy is losing interest, it's usually pretty obvious, but with some women, it seems like it comes right out of the blue. Now, I know there were probably a million red flags, and we were just too in love to notice, but it's really scary.

What's the point of it anymore? If I can't honestly love a woman and treat her well, for fear of her thinking I'm weak, then what's the use in having a long term relationship? I know not every woman is like that, but finding a good one is like looking for a needle in a haystack. Plenty of guys thought their girl was different, until they found out how much she was the same.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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connor32

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the sickest part is how they can go from being all over you one minute to breaking up with you literally the next minute. guys arent like that. if im not feeling a chick i dont lead her on just for the hell of it.
 

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GUYS WAKE UP!!

Women aren't bad, they aren't b!tches, they aren't evil... the just are.

Your putting the blame on them when in reality the problem is you, however that is much harder to acknowledge. I bet if you gave me detailed descriptions of the guys who got dumped I could tell you exactly why.

I wish life worked like we were taught. But the girl flowers and provide for her and everything will work out fine. In reality it doesn't work like that. Most guys fail because they don't understand how women really are.

Go read How To Be The Jerk Women Love - FJ Shark. Hell if you can't be bothered just read the DJ Bible! Wake up guys, stop complaining and start learning. The world isn't going to change, women aren't going to change, only YOU can change.
 

Poonani Maker

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connor32 said:
if im not feeling a chick i dont lead her on just for the hell of it.
I do. It's my Way of gettin back at these whores.
 

SinJester

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Poonani Maker said:
I do. It's my Way of gettin back at these whores.
With all due respect, you have problems.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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justiceseeker

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I don't buy this "It's all our fault" crap. Women have been corrupted. Sure that's partly our fault, but how can you blame guys for the way women act?

You can have the best game in the world, and some bytch can pull the wool over your eyes. It's not our fault that women don't have integrity. It's not our fault that we can't read their minds and know when they're going to leave. It's not our fault if we don't act the right way 100 percent of the time.

**** it, maybe you should ask yourself what went haywire in women's brains. Don't say it's how women are, because women were never like this before. It's a learned behavior and it can be un-learned.
 

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SinJester said:
With all due respect, you have problems.
I feel guilty about this one I've done that to. She's becoming more and more self-conscious about herself, whether she's doing every little thing right in the presence of me or not, whether she thinks I think she's ugly or not. I feel bad about it, but to be honest, I know for a fact that she does it to other guys. She uses them as jealousy ploys to get my attention and on and on so, I don't really feel bad about it. If she's constantly thinking that she doesn't measure up to my specs then so be it.
 

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With all due respect to everyone, I put the blame 90% on the guy, while only 10% on the female.

I understand that women can occasionally pull the wool over some guys eyes, but lets be real.

YOU chose to go after her (men are usually the initatior), and it is YOUR fault. It's like the guy that b!tches about him hitting the back of a parked car and blaming the other guy. It just doesn't fly.

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I.A.F.Y.B.

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SinJester said:
GUYS WAKE UP!!

Wake up guys, stop complaining and start learning. The world isn't going to change, women aren't going to change, only YOU can change.
Sadly, some cannot get it through their fantasy world.
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Sadly, some cannot get it through their fantasy world.
And such individuals have chosen not to participate nor take responsibility for their lives. Therefore, no attempt to help them should be made because until they realize who controls their life, they are a toxic force.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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comic_relief said:
With all due respect to everyone, I put the blame 90% on the guy, while only 10% on the female.

I understand that women can occasionally pull the wool over some guys eyes, but lets be real.

YOU chose to go after her (men are usually the initatior), and it is YOUR fault. It's like the guy that b!tches about him hitting the back of a parked car and blaming the other guy. It just doesn't fly.

comic_relief
I think it takes two to tango, so both choose each other.

It's the same for both sexes. Women choose to date a non-committal guy and then blame all men for it or men choose to date a five-star bimbo and find her humping their best pal, and after that they are bitter about women.

Taking your time to get to know the person helps a lot. If you are the type who rushes any type of relationship don't be surprised if you find out your gf has been banging the UPS guy. Not all women and men are *****es and *****s, there are men and women out there with self-respect and integrity. If they don't have any self-respect, they won't respect you either.
 

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We have to face reality fellas, MOST women just aren't worth it these days.
It doesn't mean that they aren't worth if you two are not compatible. It's a numbers game anyway and you cannot truly find out if they are worth before you engage them and you spend some time with them. Of course, there are also women that it's clear from distance that they are not for you. I'm here abotu the gray zone..because if you begin to generalize you look only for the bad part of things. You may lose on the other way a lot of opportunities.

You're taking an awful chance falling in love with someone who can turn on you at the drop of a hat. That's what's so sinister about women.
This is a fear based mindset. When you give love you don't expect something in return. You give it because this is who you really are and you don't need somebody else to do it. I think we have a different view for what love means anyway.

If a guy is losing interest, it's usually pretty obvious,
It's obvious but this doesn't mean that his love cannot come back.
but with some women, it seems like it comes right out of the blue.
This is the female nature. If you accept it or not, it's still there.
 
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