"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What's with all these lame 'It's over for xxxCels' posts on here'?

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What's with all these ridiculous 'It's over for xxxCels' posts by the user 'MatureDJ' on here? He's literally posting them all the time on different forums here.

So what's the deal with these posts? It sounds like he's clueless about women and the game, he's got a lot of limiting, disempowering beliefs and a very dark/negative perspective towards women.

Is the indicative of what this place has become?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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corrector said:
He is rich, a millionaire by his own words, so he can afford to make posts like that as he has plenty of time.
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Why is he so bitter, jaded and clueless about women if he is a millionaire? And why come on this forum and b*tch and complain about them? If he can't get women with game and his personality, then he could simply buy sex and companionship instead since he's got plenty of money.
 
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The line was being said on a serious basis for different groups of incels on here a few years ago. MDJ began posting random stories and coming up with different combos of “-cels” as a joke and has kept it going for awhile now. It’s pretty harmless stuff.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Guitar_Whizz said:
Why is he so bitter, jaded and clueless about women if he is a millionaire? And why come on this forum and b*tch and complain about them? If he can't get women with game and his personality, then he could simply buy sex and companionship instead since he's got plenty of money.
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He has does do these things you are saying. He's really insecure about his height. He also has very strict standards on his race. He will not date outside of his race, so he can't use his JBW and get an ethnic gf/wife either. I think if he could use his money and get over 6 feet tall, and do a male makover and saw better traction with his "new look", then it would be different with him.

It's interesting that from the other members that visit escorts he's rather quiet about that. I guess the idea is he should not have to pay what other guys get for free. Even if you are a millionaire, if the only way you can get with a woman is to pay for it, then that gets old fast.
 
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Why is he so bitter, jaded and clueless about women if he is a millionaire
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Making money and knowing how to attract women are 2 different things.

If he can't get women with game and his personality, then he could simply buy sex and companionship instead since he's got plenty of money.
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Men on Sosuave don't want a woman's sex or companionship. Men on Sosuave want a woman's LOVE. And women hate to give love. Women don't mind giving sex for the right price if the man is decent looking, but they won't give love easily.

I'm sure 95% of men on Sosuave have enough money to go to Amsterdam and get sex from a woman in the red light district, but they don't want that. I'm sure 95% of the men on Sosuave have enough money to pay a woman for companionship, but they don't want that. Men on Sosuave want a woman to love them, to care for them, to call them up and have the woman say "I'm coming over to cook for you and then we can watch a movie and make love because I care so much about you"

As Coolio said in Gangsta's Paradise song: "Too much television watching got me chasing dreams....."
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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