"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What's with all the self-hating men these days?

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You'll meet a guy and he'll seem pretty solid but then you'll see him on social media going to extreme lengths to pander to the radical feminists. He'll writing posts about how men are are idiots/sensitive/insensitive whatever the daily flavour is. And I think to myself, ok I will just ask him a simple question "Do you hate men?" And his response is just to ignore me. Someone who had previously said to my face that I am his friend. I felt relatively comfortable asking him the question, but these self hating men are never comfortable to answer it. I can safely assume he doesn't consider me a friend now, because I asked a question.

What the hell is going on?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Swallowing the red pill is like a regular sized snake swallowing a dog in one bite. It takes a while to get it down there. People like him are not as far along in their red pill journey as we are. I have seen this with many people I know and the most important thing I have learned is that there is nothing I can do to speed the process up for them. They have to do it at the pace in which they are comfortable.
 
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