"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What's with all the self-hating men these days?

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You'll meet a guy and he'll seem pretty solid but then you'll see him on social media going to extreme lengths to pander to the radical feminists. He'll writing posts about how men are are idiots/sensitive/insensitive whatever the daily flavour is. And I think to myself, ok I will just ask him a simple question "Do you hate men?" And his response is just to ignore me. Someone who had previously said to my face that I am his friend. I felt relatively comfortable asking him the question, but these self hating men are never comfortable to answer it. I can safely assume he doesn't consider me a friend now, because I asked a question.

What the hell is going on?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Swallowing the red pill is like a regular sized snake swallowing a dog in one bite. It takes a while to get it down there. People like him are not as far along in their red pill journey as we are. I have seen this with many people I know and the most important thing I have learned is that there is nothing I can do to speed the process up for them. They have to do it at the pace in which they are comfortable.
 
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