You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Solve your issues first. If you have an issue with "chest beaters", it reveals a lot about your self-esteem. Why does it bother you? Did you feel attacked? Does it make you feel less of a man?Thanks for the psychology advice but you are the one coming in here acting hostile calling me a Clinton supporter or whatever.
Shall we have a word about your unresolved issues, sunshine? What's causing this hostility? Did mummy not give you enough attention?
You are making very little sense.Solve your issues first. If you have an issue with "chest beaters", it reveals a lot about your self-esteem. Why does it bother you? Did you feel attacked? Does it make you feel less of a man?
Once you calm your sensitivities, reflect on this thread. No need for it, unless you needed to air your insecurities out to all of us.
You are a passive aggressive twitSolve your issues first. If you have an issue with "chest beaters", it reveals a lot about your self-esteem. Why does it bother you? Did you feel attacked? Does it make you feel less of a man?
Once you calm your sensitivities, reflect on this thread. No need for it, unless you needed to air your insecurities out to all of us.
Not at all. I have no desire to brag about anything. What use will i have if i tell you how much money i make? Are you going to care how many women i've banged? Not at all.You are making very little sense.
A few guys here have decided to point out that it's annoying when certain posters here lie about how well they're doing, AND put others down in the process.
Does it affect you? Will it impact your life? Do you care if they are lying or not?
They've stated that it hurts the quality of the forum that many of us visit every day, which it does. That's it.
And you've come on here to actually put others down in a roundabout way too, without the prerequisite of lying about how many women you've banged and how much money you make. So you're a little less annoying than the others dudes, but I do have some advice for you as well. If you seek out threads you don't like to tell people why you don't like the thread, you should just move on to the next thread and maybe re-evaluate your use of free time.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Not at all. I have no desire to brag about anything. What use will i have if i tell you how much money i make? Are you going to care how many women i've banged? Not at all.
I've come on here to lament. It is very sad to see how easily the masses get diverted by any triviality.
This thread exposes the banalities the masses get enthralled by.
I had the same observation and wanted to say it more than once. "Dude, I can't take anybody with a shirtless profile pic seriously, no matter what the forum is"Shirtless pics lol
My guess is they are gay and they want you to game them.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Indeed, if you're going to post in an anonymous forum, the concept of demanding proof from people is ridiculous. Nothing is verifiable so it's a disinformation tactic to demand evidence. Frankly, it's a testament to your winning the argument if they feign disbelief.The problem you run into with telling people these type of details is (they) do not believe you no matter what you say, no matter who you actually are and no matter what you make, who you date, where you live, who your family is, what you do and on and on and on ad nauseum.