You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Solve your issues first. If you have an issue with "chest beaters", it reveals a lot about your self-esteem. Why does it bother you? Did you feel attacked? Does it make you feel less of a man?Thanks for the psychology advice but you are the one coming in here acting hostile calling me a Clinton supporter or whatever.
Shall we have a word about your unresolved issues, sunshine? What's causing this hostility? Did mummy not give you enough attention?
You are making very little sense.Solve your issues first. If you have an issue with "chest beaters", it reveals a lot about your self-esteem. Why does it bother you? Did you feel attacked? Does it make you feel less of a man?
Once you calm your sensitivities, reflect on this thread. No need for it, unless you needed to air your insecurities out to all of us.
You are a passive aggressive twitSolve your issues first. If you have an issue with "chest beaters", it reveals a lot about your self-esteem. Why does it bother you? Did you feel attacked? Does it make you feel less of a man?
Once you calm your sensitivities, reflect on this thread. No need for it, unless you needed to air your insecurities out to all of us.
Not at all. I have no desire to brag about anything. What use will i have if i tell you how much money i make? Are you going to care how many women i've banged? Not at all.You are making very little sense.
A few guys here have decided to point out that it's annoying when certain posters here lie about how well they're doing, AND put others down in the process.
Does it affect you? Will it impact your life? Do you care if they are lying or not?
They've stated that it hurts the quality of the forum that many of us visit every day, which it does. That's it.
And you've come on here to actually put others down in a roundabout way too, without the prerequisite of lying about how many women you've banged and how much money you make. So you're a little less annoying than the others dudes, but I do have some advice for you as well. If you seek out threads you don't like to tell people why you don't like the thread, you should just move on to the next thread and maybe re-evaluate your use of free time.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Not at all. I have no desire to brag about anything. What use will i have if i tell you how much money i make? Are you going to care how many women i've banged? Not at all.
I've come on here to lament. It is very sad to see how easily the masses get diverted by any triviality.
This thread exposes the banalities the masses get enthralled by.
I had the same observation and wanted to say it more than once. "Dude, I can't take anybody with a shirtless profile pic seriously, no matter what the forum is"Shirtless pics lol
My guess is they are gay and they want you to game them.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Indeed, if you're going to post in an anonymous forum, the concept of demanding proof from people is ridiculous. Nothing is verifiable so it's a disinformation tactic to demand evidence. Frankly, it's a testament to your winning the argument if they feign disbelief.The problem you run into with telling people these type of details is (they) do not believe you no matter what you say, no matter who you actually are and no matter what you make, who you date, where you live, who your family is, what you do and on and on and on ad nauseum.