“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What's up with this????

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LaZaRuS

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Hey guys...I need some advice! Right now I'm a freshman in high school and there are these 2 fine girls in my grade that I hang out with a lot. Which is cool because the 3 of us and about 5 or 6 of my other friends always go to each others houses and stuff. Well tonight after a basketball game I see these 2 girls hanging out with some junior and senior guys at Taco Bell...I walk in and they're all like "hey bob!" and one of the the 2 girls started telling me how hot I was. Then 2 seconds later they act like I'm not even there and start flirting with the other guys.

My question is: What's up with this? I'm alright to hang out only when they don't have upperclassmen to hang out with?:confused:

Thank you!
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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You shouldn't take stuff like this so personally. Do you ALWAYS hang out with them? Of course not. They're going to do the same.

Also, it's a sad truth that upperclassmen guys have an advantage over freshmen. Not an impossible one, but an advantage because girls like older guys. It's just something you have to deal with.

Also, it's very possible they're using the other guys to make you jealous, if they really do want you. They're playing the same DJ style games we talk about. No big deal.

Don't overreact to little stuff like this.
 
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You're right...I guess I did overreact. Thanks for the advice gaming!:)
 
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I'll admit that the fact that upperclassmen go for the younger chics, and upperclass chics go for college guys, does bother the hell out of me. I look at the situation from a different perspective as you, since I am a senior. I'm almost expected to be macking on sophmores and juniors, but generally I refuse. I'm just less attracted to girls who are younger than me, and this, admittedly does make things more difficult for me.

I'd be insulted if some ladies who were my age or even a few years older than me gave me the cold shoulder when encountering guys older than them, simply because of your age. It's okay to express your anger / frustration with them for their behaviors. Work on your maturity level, your vocabulary, and your speaking skills, and go at those ladies and ask them what was up with their behavior.

Gaming is right though that this is just one particular instance, and you shouldn't take it too seriously. But... negative behavioral trends that others have, that are effecting you, need to brought up and addressed.

- Maurizio
 
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