"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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what's up with these serbian and romanian chicks?

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My school has a big serbian/romanian group. A lot of the girls have this weird... cold vibe to them, not really that cold, but sorta blunt with the way they talk, don't give you much to work with. A bit touchy.

I've been looking into specifics for how you deal with these girls, but no luck really. I know that eye contact is extremely important when saying hello for people from around there... but that's about it. There's overviews of russians, italians, almost any nationality you can name, but not on these types of girls. Any pointers?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I've gamed a few Romanian chicks at my school, and the key is to remember that they're not American. They won't understand certain jokes, will be more easily offended, but still respond to negs and C&F. The best thing to do, I think, is to talk to them about their experiences in their home country. They usually have a lot to say, and it helps you get attuned with other cultures and how the girl herself sees the world.
 

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How is this type of thread allowed when it stereotypes serbian/russian females, but any black/white thread instantly gets removed ??

Cough Cough BS Cough Cough


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PlasticSurgeon said:
Hey man. For some reason I attract a LOT of Serbian/Croation/Bosnian/Yugoslavian/Hungarian/Russian girls. I think it has to do with Indian cinema being extremely popular in those countries. That is 'Bollywood.' If you haven't figured it out, I'm Indian.

Anyways, I'm gaming 2 Eastern European women right now and I will say this. Coming from economies that aren't well.. as 'good' as America, a lot of these girls are into money/looks/designer stuff/Mercedes yadda yadda. Even more so I find than American white girls. But, they are so easy to lay. In all truth I think girls who come from lower socioeconomic classes are more prone to sleep with men from higher socioeconomic classes on the first date. Take this situation as I illustrate...

I took this girl to Red Lobster and fu**ed her that night on the first date. She goes home and tells all her friends, "Ohhh it was wonderful he took me to Red Lobster, dinner was fabulous, he paid for everything!"
Now I go home to my friends and say "Yo all i had to do was take this girl to Red Lobster and I got sex!"

It's really funny. Okay but one thing I really like about them is that they all seem to be educated and value education. This is the positive of any girl who is not westernized. One of these girls I'm gaming is super cute and she goes to all these IVY League lectures and Noble Peace Prize winner lectures etc. etc. I like that kind of stuff so conversation never runs dry. GOOD LUCK!
True true. Same reason why latin american chicks are easier than americans and western euro girls are harder.

But, all chicks are prone to clicky behavior and penetrating any circle of girls takes some skill.
 

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Shut this thread down, its perpetrating stereotypes...

If we can't talk about black/white... we shouldn't be allowed to talk about any races



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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Cod3r said:
Shut this thread down, its perpetrating stereotypes...

If we can't talk about black/white... we shouldn't be allowed to talk about any races
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we're talking about sexual interaction between different cultures and socioeconomic classes... i'd say that type of discussion is essential for young dj's to hear

certainly there are generalizations in this type of conversation, but we make generalizations to describe almost everything - there is always uncertainty so we have to remember no generalization is certain - there are exceptions
 

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Hand the Romanian girls a cross and a clove of garlic and see what happens.

(What no vampire jokes?)
 

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we're talking about sexual interaction between different cultures and socioeconomic classes... i'd say that type of discussion is essential for young dj's to hear

certainly there are generalizations in this type of conversation, but we make generalizations to describe almost everything - there is always uncertainty so we have to remember no generalization is certain - there are exceptions
We just had a thread about a guy wanting to know how to fvck white girls being black with the same sort of generalizations and guess where that thread is ?? Locked and Removed...

BTW

Eastern Euro girls aren't as hard as American white girls IMO, also Aussie girls are the hardest in my opinion, if you're a minority. I never knew its like 2% minority population in Australia, it's hard as hell to game over there unless you're a typical aussie white guy... but that shouldn't stop u from trying !


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aelux said:
True true. Same reason why latin american chicks are easier than americans and western euro girls are harder.

But, all chicks are prone to clicky behavior and penetrating any circle of girls takes some skill.

Absolutely. Start by penetrating the one girl first. :rockon:
 
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