"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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what's up with these serbian and romanian chicks?

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My school has a big serbian/romanian group. A lot of the girls have this weird... cold vibe to them, not really that cold, but sorta blunt with the way they talk, don't give you much to work with. A bit touchy.

I've been looking into specifics for how you deal with these girls, but no luck really. I know that eye contact is extremely important when saying hello for people from around there... but that's about it. There's overviews of russians, italians, almost any nationality you can name, but not on these types of girls. Any pointers?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I've gamed a few Romanian chicks at my school, and the key is to remember that they're not American. They won't understand certain jokes, will be more easily offended, but still respond to negs and C&F. The best thing to do, I think, is to talk to them about their experiences in their home country. They usually have a lot to say, and it helps you get attuned with other cultures and how the girl herself sees the world.
 

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How is this type of thread allowed when it stereotypes serbian/russian females, but any black/white thread instantly gets removed ??

Cough Cough BS Cough Cough


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PlasticSurgeon said:
Hey man. For some reason I attract a LOT of Serbian/Croation/Bosnian/Yugoslavian/Hungarian/Russian girls. I think it has to do with Indian cinema being extremely popular in those countries. That is 'Bollywood.' If you haven't figured it out, I'm Indian.

Anyways, I'm gaming 2 Eastern European women right now and I will say this. Coming from economies that aren't well.. as 'good' as America, a lot of these girls are into money/looks/designer stuff/Mercedes yadda yadda. Even more so I find than American white girls. But, they are so easy to lay. In all truth I think girls who come from lower socioeconomic classes are more prone to sleep with men from higher socioeconomic classes on the first date. Take this situation as I illustrate...

I took this girl to Red Lobster and fu**ed her that night on the first date. She goes home and tells all her friends, "Ohhh it was wonderful he took me to Red Lobster, dinner was fabulous, he paid for everything!"
Now I go home to my friends and say "Yo all i had to do was take this girl to Red Lobster and I got sex!"

It's really funny. Okay but one thing I really like about them is that they all seem to be educated and value education. This is the positive of any girl who is not westernized. One of these girls I'm gaming is super cute and she goes to all these IVY League lectures and Noble Peace Prize winner lectures etc. etc. I like that kind of stuff so conversation never runs dry. GOOD LUCK!
True true. Same reason why latin american chicks are easier than americans and western euro girls are harder.

But, all chicks are prone to clicky behavior and penetrating any circle of girls takes some skill.
 

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Shut this thread down, its perpetrating stereotypes...

If we can't talk about black/white... we shouldn't be allowed to talk about any races



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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Cod3r said:
Shut this thread down, its perpetrating stereotypes...

If we can't talk about black/white... we shouldn't be allowed to talk about any races
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we're talking about sexual interaction between different cultures and socioeconomic classes... i'd say that type of discussion is essential for young dj's to hear

certainly there are generalizations in this type of conversation, but we make generalizations to describe almost everything - there is always uncertainty so we have to remember no generalization is certain - there are exceptions
 

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Hand the Romanian girls a cross and a clove of garlic and see what happens.

(What no vampire jokes?)
 

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we're talking about sexual interaction between different cultures and socioeconomic classes... i'd say that type of discussion is essential for young dj's to hear

certainly there are generalizations in this type of conversation, but we make generalizations to describe almost everything - there is always uncertainty so we have to remember no generalization is certain - there are exceptions
We just had a thread about a guy wanting to know how to fvck white girls being black with the same sort of generalizations and guess where that thread is ?? Locked and Removed...

BTW

Eastern Euro girls aren't as hard as American white girls IMO, also Aussie girls are the hardest in my opinion, if you're a minority. I never knew its like 2% minority population in Australia, it's hard as hell to game over there unless you're a typical aussie white guy... but that shouldn't stop u from trying !


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aelux said:
True true. Same reason why latin american chicks are easier than americans and western euro girls are harder.

But, all chicks are prone to clicky behavior and penetrating any circle of girls takes some skill.

Absolutely. Start by penetrating the one girl first. :rockon:
 
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