"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What's up with the man-purse?

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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johnny_depp

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WTF sorry to say but that is weird and creepy. you wouldnt catch me dead with one of those. that is just p*ssy.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Manolo

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johnny_depp said:
WTF sorry to say but that is weird and creepy. you wouldnt catch me dead with one of those. that is just p*ssy.
It's a European thing like someone said above, trust me it doesn't stop anyone from getting laid over there.
 

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Uhhh...thats gay.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Vulpine

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Hey! HEY!

Just as it's noone's business ("") what's in a woman's purse, it's noone's business what is in my attache.

*erhem*

*straightens tie*

How dare you!

(good thing there are locks on it!)
 

Vulpine

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Deus ex Pianoforte said:
What do you those "guys" got in there anyway? Their freakin' tampons and lip gloss?

Close.



Stripper glitter and mascara.
 

Rudra

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"European" ??? No way... a danish or german male with at least one ball left wouldn´t be caught dead with such a megagay thing.
In Russia they are popular (don´t understand why), you see definitely non gay guys actually running around with it. Guess asian influence. But not everybody. Not me. Not ever.
 

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Facts:
Most designers are gay men.

Many gays fantasize about turning straight men gay.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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bigjohnson

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Vulpine said:
What kind of vaganized society calls it a purse?
Purse wasn't originally feminine at all anyway. It's still gay. :crackup:
 
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