"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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what's up w/ this girl?

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Hey Fellas. :wave:

My #1 plate is acting really :trouble: lately.

Most of the time, I'm w/ this girl. We just hang out & chill. She's hott, but I don't want an LTR right now, although I like messing w/ her sometimes.

All of a sudden, this girl is getting very b*tchy, being mean to me, but she constantly wants to be around me and gets closer to me every time she sees me w/ other girls. I've started ignoring her, b/c her being that way isn't cool to me. It's almost pissing me off. :nono: The problem is we're in the same social circle. Should I just call the girl out on her b&tchiness or just ignore her? :kick:

Man. She's hott though. I love messing w/ her. :rock:
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Sounds like she wants to become exclusive with you. When a woman wants to become exclusive to a guy she's competing for, she'll start doing things to an extreme. Some will become very posessive, some will become extremely generous, some will begin to nag. This is the point where you need to decide whether to drop the woman completely, or make her a LTR.
 
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Newb question, whats LTR stand for?

I tryed to guess lol... kinda got Life Time R...
 
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thanks desdinova man. :rockon:

i don't want a ltr w/ her yet, b/c i'm still getting to know her. right now, she's being a bad girl. :trouble: until she behaves herself, i'll just move on & stop spinning this particular plate. her being like this isn't any fun. :nervous:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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You're giving her mixed signals, so she's giving you mixed signals.
 
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call it out with humor. Flirt with a bit and turn situation around with Kino. And tell her to her face that you are not hers yet.
 
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